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Liz Dewhurst has witnessed quite a bit in her thirty-seven years: the birth of her son, the death of her mother, the waxing and waning days on the farm where she was raised . . . the sight of her husband in another woman’s arms. Suddenly, she’s feeling worn down and used up by the very lifestyle upon which she once thrived. Bitterness at her broken marriage has distanced her from her son, Alex—even as she’s poured all her remaining energy into battling the development company that wants to purchase her family’s land to build a golf course.
Now Liz must confront a few things, including the fate of the farm, her feelings for her ex-husband, and a trip to Spain that rekindles a fire in her she had forgotten existed. Liz returns to Balmuir a different woman. Now, in the wake of a near-tragedy, she must draw on her newfound strength to make a difficult choice. To look at her life in a different way, standing tall, and starting over . . .
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STARTING OVER
Since the split-up of her 18-year marriage, Liz Dewhurst has lived with her son, Alex, and her father on the small family farm on the east coast of Fife, an area blessed with rich soil and beautiful, unspoiled landscapes. But change is in the works. The farm is in financial trouble, and developers are willing to buy at a good price. An attractive older man is now a boarder, and even Liz's ex-husband is suddenly back in the picture.With a deft touch and an uncanny sense of the human heart, Robin Pilcher's STARTING OVER will be an unforgettable, heart-warming audiobook.
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Robin Pilcher, bestselling author of An Ocean Apart returns readers to contemporary Scotland, where the "simple" life has grown somewhat more complicated, but the shortest distance between lonely hearts will always be love...
Sometimes The Hardest Thing In Life...
Liz Dewhurst has witnessed quite a bit in her thirty-seven years: the birth of her son, the death of her mother, the waxing and waning days on the farm where she was raised...the sight of her husband in another woman's arms. Suddenly, she's feeling worn down and used up by the very lifestyle upon which she once thrived. Bitterness at her broken marriage has distanced her from her son, Alex-even as she's poured all her remaining energy into battling the development company that wants to purchase her family's land to build a golf course.
...Is To Live It
Now Liz must confront a few things, including the fate of the farm, her feelings for her ex-husband, and a trip to Spain that rekindles a fire in her she had forgotten existed. The Liz who returns to Balmuir is a different woman. Now, in the wake of a near-tragedy, she must draw on her newfound strength to make a difficult choice. To look at her life in a different way, standing tall, and...
Starting Over
"Pilcher writes with an excellent sense of the pace of his story. It's easy to feel you know these people and to grasp the complexities of their relationships...a worthy novel." -Houston Chronicle
"[Pilcher's] characters are ordinary people enriched by [the] quiet rendering of their lives in a tale [with] lots of emotion...one of those smart, charming stories that leaves readers feeling content and very happy that they chose to read it." -Booklist
About the Author
Robin Pilcher has spent too long behind the scenes. The son of bestselling novelist Rosamunde Pilcher, he has worked as a farmer, assistant film cameraman, and PR consultant. His first novel, An Ocean Apart, was a New York Times bestseller, and a favorite among Pilcher fans old and new. He lives with his wife and four children near Dundee, Scotland.
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No more than a minute later, Alex Dewhurst stepped away from the ball, just as he prepared to play his approach to the tenth hole on the New Course at St. Andrews. He took two more practice shots, swinging his number eight iron in slow, rhythmic arcs, desperate to keep his concentration until the Phantom jet, which had set down on the runway at the other side of the estuary, had closed down the reverse thrust on its engines. When the noise had subsided, he re-addressed the ball, flexing his knees to settle his tall frame into the shot, then played through the ball with a swing as smooth as those that he had executed in practice. The ball soared high into the air, starting its flight left of the fluttering flag before catching the stiff sea breeze that blew in across the course. It pitched fifteen metres short of its target, but with no back-spin applied, it ran fast across the hardened fairway onto the razored surface of the green. It caught the borrow and swung in towards the flag, and eventually came to rest no more than three feet from the hole.Alex kept the final position on his swing until he had seen the ball come to a halt, then let the club rest down on his shoulder. He turned to his opponent, and grinned. “Of course it was meant!”Tom Harrison’s eyes had not left the ball. The captain of the university golf team stood no more than two clubs’ distance from Alex, supporting his right elbow with his left hand and biting thoughtfully at a fingernail. He took a deep breath and glanced across at his younger opponent, shaking his head in disbelief.“That is bloody ridiculous! That’s about the fourth time today you’ve laid it dead from that distance!”Alex stepped forward and scooped up the divot of turf with the blade of his club. “It doesn’t always work that way.” He replaced the divot and stamped it back into the ground. “But I suppose it does help being brought up on links courses. You just get to know how they work.” He speared the club back into his golf bag and swung it up onto his shoulder, then stood watching as Tom walked over to where his ball lay in the short, wispy rough at the edge of the fairway.No, he thought to himself, it certainly didn’t always work that way. Far from it. Despite having a handicap of five, quite often by this stage in a game he would have blown a couple of holes, simply through some niggling apprehension that momentarily bled his concentration. But then it always seemed to be a different matter when he was in a match situation. This was his forte, playing head to head against an opponent, playing to win. And he knew that, in this case, his reward for winning would probably be a place on the team.Tom played his shot, but badly miscalculated the resistance of the rough, the consequence being that the ball stopped ten yards short of the green. “Damn!” He picked up his bag and walked rapidly forward to catch up with Alex. “So, go on. You were saying that you were at school around here.”“Yes. Madras College. I wouldn’t say that I exactly excelled myself there, but that was my fault, not the school’s. I spent more time on the golf course than I did in the classroom during my final year, which did play havoc with my grades. But I was the captain of the school golf team, and I took it all quite seriously.”Tom pulled a face at Alex’s obvious self-deprecation. “Well, you couldn’t have done that badly if you got into the university.”“Only there by the skin of my teeth.”“Aren’t we all? So, what are you reading?”“Languages—German and French.”“Ah, a leenguist, huh? And what about digs? I suppose you’re in halls, being a fresher.”“No. I still live at home.”“Oh, right! I didn’t realize that you lived that close to Saint Andrews.”Arriving at his ball, Tom shrugged the golf bag off his shoulder and pulled out a pitching wedge in one practised move, then, with near nonchalance, stood over the ball and stroked it to within two feet of the hole. He turned to Alex, a hopeful grin on his face. “A gimme?”Alex nodded. “Okay. A gimme.”Tom crossed over to the ball and pushed it into the hole with the back of his club. “So where exactly are you from?”Alex took a putter from his bag and walked over to his ball. “Balmuir. You’ve probably never heard of it. It’s just a wee flea-bite of a place seven miles along the coast. My parents both farm out there.”“Oh, I know Balmuir! That’s where they’re planning to build the new course, isn’t it? I read about it in the local paper. ‘The best new links course in Britain,’ that’s how they’re describing it already.”From the moment that Alex put the blade of the putter to the ball, he knew that he was not ready for the shot. Thoughts unconnected with the game flashed through his mind, and he suddenly felt apart from the ball, his brain totally out of tune with the movements of his hands. He tried to play for time by taking a couple of practice shots, but was only too aware of a tenseness that grated at the fluidity that had been there beforehand. His eyes began to focus on other things—the logo on his ball, lying askew with the angle at which he was preparing to play his shot, a minute blade of grass that seemed to be lying against the grain in the carpet of green. All things that, up until that moment, had remained completely unimportant and unnoticed in the momentum of his game. He took back the club and hesitated. The sin. The cardinal sin. He pushed the ball towards the hole, and knew from the moment that he had hit it that it was to the left and well past.He watched the ball as it took its designated path, bending his knees forward in the hope that the movement would in some way alter its course to the hole. But psychology gave way to physics, and the ball glided past its target exactly at the point that he had imagined. He stood watching it for a moment, then glanced across at his opponent, cocking his head to the side in an expression of resignation to his own fallibility.Tom scratched at the side of his face with a finger. “What happened there?”Alex didn’t reply, but walked forward to his ball, hiding his disappointment by scrutinizing the line once more, as if trying to lay blame on something other than his own ineptness at getting it into the hole.“Is that all right?” he asked quietly. He bent down, his hand hovering above the ball.“Yes, sure,” Tom replied. He exhaled in relief. “Hell, you let me off the hook there, mate. Thought that was definitely me going one down.”Alex scooped up the ball and went to pick up his golf bag, passing Tom without a remark.Together they walked to the next tee in silence.Even though it was still his opponent’s honour to drive off, Alex watched as Tom dumped his bag on the ground and continued on to the bench that was situated at the side of the tee, nestled under the protection of a rampant gorse-bush. He sat down and folded his arms. “I’m sorry, Alex. I psyched you out just then, didn’t I?”Alex smiled at him and shook his head. “No, it was nothing. Just my concentration went.”“I know. I saw it happen. What was the cause?” He paused for an explanation, but none was forthcoming. He asked again. “Was it something I said?”Alex shook his head. “It doesn’t matter.”“Like hell it doesn’t! Listen, forgive me if I come over as being a bit of a know-all, but it’s perfectly true that seventy-five percent of this game is played in your head, and to put it bluntly, Alex, if you’re going to have any chance of playing for the team, I have to make sure that you don’t spook quite as easily as that.”Alex looked back to the tenth hole and watched as a ball came to rest on the edge of the green. “Come on, Tom, we’d better get a move on, or we’ll hold up play.”Tom paid no heed to the remark. “Oh, bugger them, let them play through. Come on, tell me. It was something about the new golf course, wasn’t it?”Alex walked slowly over to the bench and thumped himself down beside Tom. “Yes, you’re right.” He paused. “The plan is to build the golf course on our farms.”Tom nodded slowly. “And you don’t want it.”“Do I not! I think it would be a great idea. Can you imagine having a championship course right on your doorstep?”“So … what’s the problem?”Alex shot his opponent a faint smile. “It’s a long story—but, in a nutshell, ‘family’ is the problem.”“Go on.”Alex took off his baseball cap and ran his fingers through his thick brown hair. “Well, if you really want to know—it’s a bloody mess, really! My parents split up about six months ago, after eighteen years of marriage, the reason being that my mother found out that my father had been having an affair with this local woman for about two years.”Tom bit at his lip. “Ah, right!” he mumbled quietly.“And that’s only half the complication. Mum and Dad came from neighbouring farms, you see, so their parents thought, well, if the families are to be united in marriage, why not unite the farms as well? So that’s exactly what they did. Farming was going really well at that time, and there were these massive grants coming from the European Community, so they were lured into buying tractors and grain-driers and all the latest technology—all against the collateral of the farm, which, as it turned out, was pretty bloody stupid. Anyway, times changed, prices went down, and the business began to suffer. And then, to cap it all, my mother found out about the affair.”Alex stopped talking as the two golfers who had been playing behind them came onto the tee. They exchanged pleasantries about the weather and the condition of the course, and watched as both hit shots that made light of the awesome expanse of gorse-infested rough that separated the tee from the fairway. With a final wave of thanks, the two golfers went on their way.“So?” Tom asked. “What was the outcome?”Alex took in a deep breath. “The outcome was that both my parents and the farms split. My father shacked up with his girl-friend at his place, where in fact we’d been living up until that time, and my mother and I moved back to my grandparents’ farm. And then, two months ago, just to rub salt into the wound, my grandmother turned up her toes.”Tom blew out a noiseless whistle and leaned forward, resting his elbows on his knees and rubbing his face with his hands. “Blooody hell!” he exclaimed, almost to himself. He looked at Alex. “As you say, what a mess.”Alex smiled at him. “Exactly. And what’s been left is this almighty financial wrangle about who owns what, or, to be more exact, who doesn’t own what. The bank really has it all. Anyway, going back to the new golf course, my father thought that he had found an answer to all our problems. He’d been approached by this financial consortium that wanted to reinstate an old nine-hole course which had existed on the farm sometime around the First World War. Their plan was to make it into an eighteen-hole championship course—as you say, ‘the best new links course in Britain’—which would mean constructing it across the two farms.”Tom nodded his head slowly, beginning to understand the implications. “And your mother’s dead against it.”Alex fired his fingers pistol-fashion at his opponent. “Got it in one. And if you think about it, can you blame her? Her husband leaves, and then comes back, all sweetness and light, to ask her if she would mind giving up her family farm so that he can pay off his overdraft and live happily ever after with his girl-friend.”“Blooody hell!” Tom exclaimed again, this time more forcefully.Both were silent for a moment as each contemplated what had been said.“Why don’t you leave home?” Tom asked eventually.Alex let out a long breath and shook his head. “I can’t. I don’t think that would be fair on Mum. Her two men upping sticks and leaving in the space of six months. No, I’ve got to stay around. It’s just that the atmosphere gets so … depressingly heavy, and everything is so insular. It’s like being caught up in some appalling soap opera. Nothing new—or … well—of any consequence is ever talked about in the house. It’s all about the wretched farms, and who’s saying what behind whose back, and”—he pulled down the corners of his mouth—“‘Whose side are you on, anyway?’ There is just absolutely no outside interest taken at all.”Tom got to his feet and stood up on the bench to see how far the two golfers were in front. He jumped off, took a driver out of his bag and teed up his ball. “Well, introduce something.” He swung his club back and forth.Alex looked at him quizzically. “What do you mean?”Tom turned and leaned on the top of his club. “Well … you can’t just sit and wait for something to happen, for things to get better, because, you have to admit, it’s a pretty hopeless situation. So why don’t you try to take the lead? Introduce something new to talk about—I don’t know—get a student lodger, or take a girl-friend home or something.”“I don’t have one at the minute.”“Well …” Tom held out his hands in exasperation. “I really can’t tell you, Alex. It’s your business, not mine.” He stepped forward to his ball and, without any preparation, hit it with enormous power straight down the centre of the fairway. He bent forward to pick up his tee. “But what is my business is the fact that I can’t risk having you blow a game when you’re on the team.”Alex was silent for a moment as he took in what Tom had just said. “What d’you exactly mean by that?”The captain of the university golf team smiled at him. “I’m short of a guy on Saturday. Can you play?”Copyright © 2002 by Robin Pilcher.
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- ASIN : B000FA5QGI
- Publisher : Thomas Dunne Books; 1st edition (April 1, 2010)
- Publication date : April 1, 2010
- Language : English
- File size : 2.8 MB
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- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
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- Print length : 416 pages
- Page numbers source ISBN : 0312983417
- Best Sellers Rank: #109,945 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #833 in Women's Divorce Fiction
- #1,277 in Mothers & Children Fiction
- #2,870 in Contemporary Women's Fiction
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- Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2025Excellent, will order additional books by this author
- Reviewed in the United States on May 14, 2023She's even less computer savvy than I am. She enjoyed the book.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 8, 2014I read this book the first time in February 2008 and found it confusing. Because I have enjoyed Robin Pilcher's other books so much, I recently re-read it and I really enjoyed it. I kept track of the characters by writing down their names and basic information about them.
Liz Dewhurst (age 37) and her son, Alex (age 18), are living with her father, Mr. Craig, on his farm, which happens to be the neighboring farm where Liz and Alex lived with Gregor Dewhurst, Liz's husband and Alex's dad, prior to Gregor's affair with Mary McLean. Mary now lives with Gregor on his farm. Obviously Liz and Gregor are estranged. And, to top it off, Mr. Craig's wife and Liz's mom has recently passed away.
A large company that buys land and develops golf courses all over the world is interested in purchasing both the Craig and Dewhurst farms for that purpose. Both farms have been losing money for several years and perhaps this is a solution, but neither Liz nor Gregor want to give up farming; it is all they know and they love it. Liz is especially despondent over Gregor's affair, the death of her mom, and the prospect of losing the farm and having the land turned into a golf course.
Professor Arthur Kempler (age 65) is tutoring Alex (a college student) in German and rents an extra room in Mr. Craig's home. He develops a friendship with Mr. Craig, Liz and Alex. Arthur has tickets and plans for a trip to Spain and invites Liz to go with him. Mr. Craig and Alex encourage her to go, hoping it will help her. Liz, having always wishing to travel, agrees.
I enjoyed their adventures in Spain, including the religious pre-Easter Semana Santa celebration.
Meanwhile, Roberta Bayliss, a single lady (age 60), travels from Australia, to Scotland on a sorrowful trip and meets Mr. Craig on a nearby golf course. He ends up acting as her caddy. They become acquainted and travel to numerous golf courses all over Scotland with Mr. Craig has her guide and caddy. They stop at Bed and Breakfast during their tour and go with the owners of the B&B to a ceilidh (a Scottish party/dance) where Mr. Craig teaches Roberta some Scottish reels.
While Liz and Mr. Craig travel, Alex stays at the Craig farm going to college and spending some time with his dad, Gregor.
There are numerous side "adventures" throughout this story. Suffice it to say that all their lives changed and the future looks good.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 6, 2022I enjoyed everything about this book, especially the description of the countryside and the intrigue of the characters....the author just pulled you in so close I felt I was there participating in every scene. I would recommend this book to everyone who loves a story you never want to end.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 1, 2014Very good story line. Interesting characters.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 15, 2015Good narrative. Excellent vocabulary. Fun.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 17, 2024Robin’s skills in writing are much in line with those of his mother, one of my very favorite authors of all times. The descriptions of environment and characters take on to being on-site the whole book. Thank you Robin!
- Reviewed in the United States on February 17, 2022Very similar writing to his mother. Made me laugh out loud in places. So good! Would definitely recommend this book to friends and family!
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- Mary MitchellReviewed in the United Kingdom on November 11, 2015
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Excellent, a real page turner.
- Kati SmithReviewed in the United Kingdom on May 16, 2015
4.0 out of 5 stars A good read
Loved the story with unexpected ending and the setting is beautifully described. My part of the world. The characters were interesting and well portrayed.
- Pat2941Reviewed in the United Kingdom on August 23, 2013
5.0 out of 5 stars Starting Over
Beautifully written story, with just the right amount of humour, sadness and romance. Thank you Mr Pilcher, next book please.
- lyndenReviewed in the United Kingdom on November 17, 2014
4.0 out of 5 stars A good tale
A good tale, but lacked some depth. Nevertheless, enjoyed the book.
- Margaret ShawReviewed in the United Kingdom on June 28, 2016
4.0 out of 5 stars Breath of fresh air
A new author for me and I really enjoyed the story. I look forward to more stories from this writer.