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The Curse of the Appropriate Man: Stories (Harvest Original) Kindle Edition
This collection of short fiction deals with the struggles between mothers and their wayward daughters, the often preposterous bonds that tie men and women together, and the complex games masters and servants play with one another.
Whether describing a mother mired in senile dementia in “Ma,” a young girl’s loss of innocence with an itinerant knife-sharpener in “Under the House,” or a young woman incapable of conventional love in “An Error of Desire,” Lynn Freed portrays the absurdity, the delusions, the dramas, and the dignity of her characters’ lives.
“Women’s relationships—with their mothers, their lovers, their culture and their own sexuality—are the subject of the 14 stories in this fine collection. Freed . . . creates achingly real women and lovingly rendered misfits, and she reports straightforwardly and without judgment on their unconventional urges and questionable decisions.” —Publishers Weekly
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"Freed wonderfully carries off that hardest of all literary effects-it feels effortless and therefore absolutely real."-Elle
"I'd say it's feminist fiction in the mode of Flaubert and Daniel Defoe."-All Things Considered, NPR
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Whether depicting the struggle between strong mothers and rebellious daughters, or the often bizarre directions in which women's desires can take them, Lynn Freed delivers surprise after surprise. These masterful stories reinforce her reputation as one of our most fearless and sophisticated observers of love in all its forms-a writer who shakes the truth from life.
Praise for Lynn Freed's novels
"Freed wonderfully carries off that hardest of all literary effects-it feels effortless and therefore absolutely real."-Elle
There is not a word out of place... Freed delves deep into the morass of sexual and filial love without mitigating complexity, and leads her reader toward insight and understanding with a deft and delicate touch."-The Washington Post Book World
Lynn Freed is the author of five novels, and the inaugural recipient of the Katherine Anne Porter Award from the American Academy of Arts and Letters. She lives in Northern
California.
About the Author
LYNN FREED was awarded the inaugural Katherine Anne Porter Award for fiction by the American Academy of Arts and Letters. She is the author of six novels, a short story collection, and a collection of essays.
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TWICE A YEAR, THE SHARPENER ARRIVED AT THE top gate, whistled for them to lock up the dogs, and then made his way around the back of the house to the kitchen lawn. Usually, the girl was there first. She squatted like him to see the files and stones laid out in a silent circle, the carving knife taken up, the flash of the blade as he curved his wrist left and right, never missing. And then the gleaming thing laid down on the tray, where she longed to touch it.
If the nanny saw the girl out there, she called her in. The Sharpener was a wild man, she said, he drank cheap brandy and lived under a piece of tin. He could be a Coloured, said her mother, or just dark from working in the sun, and from lawnmower grease, and from not washing properly.
But whenever the girl heard his whistle, she ran out anyway. He never looked up at her. He wasn't the sort of man to notice a child growing year by year, or to care. He seemed to consider only the knives, always choosing the carver first, holding it up to the light, running its edge along the pad of his thumb. When all the knives were sharpened and he walked around to the front verandah, she followed him there. She waited next to his satchel while he opened the little door and climbed down under the house to fetch the lawnmower.
And then one day she asked, "What do you do under the house?"
And he stopped on the top step and turned to look at her with his dirty green eyes. He didn't smile, he never smiled. But he tossed his head for her to follow him, and so she did, down into the cool, dim light.
She knew the place well. It was deep and wide, running the length of the verandah, and high enough to stand up in. Bicycles were kept down there, and the old doll's pram, pushed now behind the garden rakes and hoes and clippers. There were sacks of seed, and bulbs, manure, and cans of oil. Through an opening in the wall, deeper in, were rooms and rooms of raw red earth, with walls and passages between them, like the house above. In the middle was a place no light could reach. She had crawled back there once, and crouched, and listened to rats scraping and darting, footsteps above, the dogs off somewhere. It smelled sour back there, and damp, and wonderful.
The Sharpener stood just out of a beam of light that came in through one of the vents. He tossed his head at her again and moved deeper into the shadow.
She knew rude things. She had done rude things with cousins and friends. There was a frenzy to them-the giggling and hushing and urging on. But now she stood solemn and still as the Sharpener came to crouch before her. He lifted her skirt and found her bloomers, pulled them down to her knees.
"We can lie down," he said.
But she shook her head, and he stood up again. He unbuttoned his trousers, pulled his thing through the slit and held it out on the palm of his hand. She knew he was offering it to her, asking for something too, his eyes never leaving her face. But she clasped her hands behind her back and looked down at the floor.
He pushed himself closer, pushed his thing up under her skirt, against her stomach, breathing his smell all over her, sweat and liquor and dirt. He turned her around and crouched behind her to push it between her legs. When she lifted her skirt, she saw it sticking through as if it were her own, and she giggled.
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Product details
- ASIN : B003WJQ7GW
- Publisher : Mariner Books; 1st edition (September 1, 2004)
- Publication date : September 1, 2004
- Language : English
- File size : 3.3 MB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Not Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 203 pages
- Page numbers source ISBN : 0156029944
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,460,842 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #2,041 in Literary Short Stories
- #2,435 in Women's Psychological Fiction
- #2,856 in Psychological Literary Fiction
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LYNN FREED was awarded the inaugural Katherine Anne Porter Award for fiction by the American Academy of Arts and Letters. She is the author of six novels, a short story collection, and a collection of essays.
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- Reviewed in the United States on July 8, 2007Dripping with language distilled down to fire water, Lynn Freed delivers here a collection of brilliant short stories, everyone raw and poignant. Whether the tale of the young woman molested by the traveling knife sharpener or the widow's daughter overwhelmed by the power and allure of her sexuality, or the narrator of the title story struggling with her attraction to all the wrong sort of men, each tale proves crafted with the care for which Freed is famous. As with many of her novels and short stories, each of these deals with issues faced by women, mostly sexual or emotional, that can dog the psyche for life.
As with most of her other work, most of these tales take place in Freed's native South Africa, a world in which she is both conflicted and achingly familiar. Yet it is not the milieu from which they derive their power, though her every detail stands as both telling and artfully selected. Instead the great power of Freed's work comes from her characters, each crafted as if by a sculpture, expert in his tools, chipping away every bit of excess to reveal the art within.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2014Great interaction between characters and extraordinary writing. The first two pieces made me uncomfortable until I realized that she was writing from a South African childhood--still found them uncomfortable, but in a different way
- Reviewed in the United States on September 4, 2014Wonderful book with deep connections to Jewish wisdom.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 16, 2006Freed, an accomplished novelist, has released a collection of 14 stories which were written over the course of two decades and were previously unpublished. At its core, this collection is about the secret desires (or compulsions, if you prefer that terminology) of women. These desires influence the actions that define the lives of women, from a curious pre-adolescent engaging in sexual relations in the basement of her family home, to paralyzing confusion and homesickness of a high school exchange student, to a complex web of family shadows, and to an abusive relationship between two lesbians.
The novel's beautiful cover and subtle prose are wrapped around a core content which is quite erotic and unconventional, in the manner of alternative lifestyles. It's nothing like the smarmy love stories I expected to read, so from that angle, it was refreshing. While I did enjoy reading these stories, they aren't without their flaws, and this book doesn't make it on to my "must-read" list. If you are intrigued by my description, though, it is most likely perfect for you.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2004At last, a collection of stories from the preeminent female novelist of our day. Freed is an author who goes straight into the world's landscapes, both interior and exterior. You can have your Morrisons and your Smileys and your Gordimers, Lynn Freed is the most fearless contemporary female writer at work today. In any language. And this book serves as proof.
Make no mistake, Freed is a better novelist than short story writer, and there are one or two stories in this collection that don't live up to the rest. However, those stories would be flagships in any one else's collection. So as I prepared to award four stars to this collection, I looked the book over again and came across a line in the story "An Error of Desire" that made it obvious why this is a five-star book: "There is love and there is desire, I thought, and for all the world they look the same until all the desire is spent." Freed is a writer with a rare brilliance that shows itself in her humor, her syntax, and her understanding of the devil and the saint in each of us.
- Reviewed in the United States on February 11, 2007Lynn Freed's collection of short stories "The Curse of the Appropriate Man" reads as though one is sitting in a room with many women and each one is offering her confession, a deep secret, which is meant only for you, the reader. Only you will understand and not judge. Only you can be trusted. As such, it reads with great honesty and there is nothing I enjoy more in writing than honesty.
The most striking of the stories for me is "The Widow's Daughter"--a tale of a beautiful girl whose mother refuses to pay a dowry for her daughter. The awful, lecherous father dead, the two women are left to make their way. It seems the mother always used the daughter to gain favor and continues to do so even after the death of her husband, the mother, thus marginalizing her daughter, seeing her not as a human being but as an object. As such, she starts to look at her daughter through the eyes of a man. In the end the two women are left alone as they were in the beginning. Their future is uncertain, though Irma, believes the writing is on the wall--that she will escape.
Freed's stories are masterful in their simplicity. There is nothing superfluous and "The Curse of the Appropriate Man" is a smooth and elegant collection, pulling together many cultures, many times, many places, yet leaving the reader feeling as though she has heard one consistent song--that of a woman looking for her place in the world.
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- Eileen ShawReviewed in the United Kingdom on November 13, 2012
2.0 out of 5 stars "That toaster oven, hell, it's got everything!"
The title story is a throwaway piece about looking for something a little different than the usual, appropriate man and getting into and quickly out of relationships with inappropriate men for a change. Hiccup and you miss it. I read all of these stories, but I wasn't moved, even by the first story which was one about child abuse. The second story started well with a young girl coming to stay in America after years living in Africa with her colonial parents. She is unaccountably revolted and disturbed by the warm welcome of the Jewish family she has been placed with. She writes asking to come home, but her parents just send her on to another family. And that's it. I didn't see the point.
Some of the stories tackle the male/female dating dance with some hope and aplomb: "From the start it was clear to me that Ernest was different. He lied of course, but his lies were about me. They were the sort of compliments that a man in love makes to the woman he wants. Every now and then I would see him glance at other women. No man I knew, not even Ernest wanted one woman only. I myself wanted many men, just as most men wanted many women." And so on. I wasn't moved. There wasn't anything new or exciting about these stories. Often you can enjoy stories just for the recognition of the situation or something about the story itself. But these fell flat.