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The Curse of the Appropriate Man: Stories (Harvest Original) Kindle Edition

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“A stunning and satisfying volume” of short stories about women and their relationships, from a winner of the Katherine Anne Porter Prize (Booklist).
 
This collection of short fiction deals with the struggles between mothers and their wayward daughters, the often preposterous bonds that tie men and women together, and the complex games masters and servants play with one another.
 
Whether describing a mother mired in senile dementia in “Ma,” a young girl’s loss of innocence with an itinerant knife-sharpener in “Under the House,” or a young woman incapable of conventional love in “An Error of Desire,” Lynn Freed portrays the absurdity, the delusions, the dramas, and the dignity of her characters’ lives.
 
“Women’s relationships—with their mothers, their lovers, their culture and their own sexuality—are the subject of the 14 stories in this fine collection. Freed . . . creates achingly real women and lovingly rendered misfits, and she reports straightforwardly and without judgment on their unconventional urges and questionable decisions.” —
Publishers Weekly

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Women's relationships—with their mothers, their lovers, their culture and their own sexuality—are the subject of the 14 stories (written over nearly 20 years) in this fine collection. Freed, the author of five novels (The Mirror; House of Women; etc.), creates achingly real women and lovingly rendered misfits, and she reports straightforwardly and without judgment on their unconventional urges and questionable decisions. "Under the House" recounts a young girl's first sexual encounter with a traveling knife sharpener in the crawl space under her house and her subsequent memories of what should have been a traumatic event for her but was in fact something much more ambiguous. "The Widow's Daughter" tells of a young woman, possibly abused as a child, discovering and then flaunting her sexual power, much to her mother's horror. In the affecting title story, a middle-aged woman ponders how "half a lifetime of appropriate men can leave a woman parched for adventure." She dates two eccentric men but, finding herself still longing for the exotic, travels to Asia. On her way back, she meets a friend who's taken the opposite tack, marrying for convenience ("Quite acceptable, once you get over the death of the heart"). A few of these stories are schematic in their briefness, but most are quietly devastating and deeply resonant.
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The apparent simplicity of each story belies the shocking power and underscores the soothing beauty resonating throughout Freed's luminous collection. United by women--some haughty, some humble, others imperious or innocent--the stories insinuate themselves into one's consciousness, to be revisited again and again in moments of quiet contemplation and utter delight. From the impervious arrogance of a recently widowed matron who now sees her manservant in a new light in "William," to a young girl's abrupt loss of innocence in "Under the House," Freed's stories dramatically yet subtly acknowledge the ever-shifting dynamics of our most essential relationships. Wives and lovers, mothers and daughters, Freed's women are complex amalgams of conflicting emotions, yet they all, seemingly, know their true essence and live their lives accordingly: witness Charlotte in "An Error of Desire," or Irma in "The Widow's Daughter." Whether celebrating love or contemplating loss, Freed delights by providing the reader with singular moments of unbridled surprise and poignant affirmation in a stunning and satisfying volume. Carol Haggas
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Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B003WJQ7GW
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Mariner Books; 1st edition (September 1, 2004)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ September 1, 2004
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 3.3 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 203 pages
  • Page numbers source ISBN ‏ : ‎ 0156029944
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LYNN FREED was awarded the inaugural Katherine Anne Porter Award for fiction by the American Academy of Arts and Letters. She is the author of six novels, a short story collection, and a collection of essays.

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  • Reviewed in the United States on July 8, 2007
    Dripping with language distilled down to fire water, Lynn Freed delivers here a collection of brilliant short stories, everyone raw and poignant. Whether the tale of the young woman molested by the traveling knife sharpener or the widow's daughter overwhelmed by the power and allure of her sexuality, or the narrator of the title story struggling with her attraction to all the wrong sort of men, each tale proves crafted with the care for which Freed is famous. As with many of her novels and short stories, each of these deals with issues faced by women, mostly sexual or emotional, that can dog the psyche for life.

    As with most of her other work, most of these tales take place in Freed's native South Africa, a world in which she is both conflicted and achingly familiar. Yet it is not the milieu from which they derive their power, though her every detail stands as both telling and artfully selected. Instead the great power of Freed's work comes from her characters, each crafted as if by a sculpture, expert in his tools, chipping away every bit of excess to reveal the art within.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2014
    Great interaction between characters and extraordinary writing. The first two pieces made me uncomfortable until I realized that she was writing from a South African childhood--still found them uncomfortable, but in a different way
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 4, 2014
    Wonderful book with deep connections to Jewish wisdom.
  • Reviewed in the United States on May 16, 2006
    Freed, an accomplished novelist, has released a collection of 14 stories which were written over the course of two decades and were previously unpublished. At its core, this collection is about the secret desires (or compulsions, if you prefer that terminology) of women. These desires influence the actions that define the lives of women, from a curious pre-adolescent engaging in sexual relations in the basement of her family home, to paralyzing confusion and homesickness of a high school exchange student, to a complex web of family shadows, and to an abusive relationship between two lesbians.

    The novel's beautiful cover and subtle prose are wrapped around a core content which is quite erotic and unconventional, in the manner of alternative lifestyles. It's nothing like the smarmy love stories I expected to read, so from that angle, it was refreshing. While I did enjoy reading these stories, they aren't without their flaws, and this book doesn't make it on to my "must-read" list. If you are intrigued by my description, though, it is most likely perfect for you.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2004
    At last, a collection of stories from the preeminent female novelist of our day. Freed is an author who goes straight into the world's landscapes, both interior and exterior. You can have your Morrisons and your Smileys and your Gordimers, Lynn Freed is the most fearless contemporary female writer at work today. In any language. And this book serves as proof.

    Make no mistake, Freed is a better novelist than short story writer, and there are one or two stories in this collection that don't live up to the rest. However, those stories would be flagships in any one else's collection. So as I prepared to award four stars to this collection, I looked the book over again and came across a line in the story "An Error of Desire" that made it obvious why this is a five-star book: "There is love and there is desire, I thought, and for all the world they look the same until all the desire is spent." Freed is a writer with a rare brilliance that shows itself in her humor, her syntax, and her understanding of the devil and the saint in each of us.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 11, 2007
    Lynn Freed's collection of short stories "The Curse of the Appropriate Man" reads as though one is sitting in a room with many women and each one is offering her confession, a deep secret, which is meant only for you, the reader. Only you will understand and not judge. Only you can be trusted. As such, it reads with great honesty and there is nothing I enjoy more in writing than honesty.

    The most striking of the stories for me is "The Widow's Daughter"--a tale of a beautiful girl whose mother refuses to pay a dowry for her daughter. The awful, lecherous father dead, the two women are left to make their way. It seems the mother always used the daughter to gain favor and continues to do so even after the death of her husband, the mother, thus marginalizing her daughter, seeing her not as a human being but as an object. As such, she starts to look at her daughter through the eyes of a man. In the end the two women are left alone as they were in the beginning. Their future is uncertain, though Irma, believes the writing is on the wall--that she will escape.

    Freed's stories are masterful in their simplicity. There is nothing superfluous and "The Curse of the Appropriate Man" is a smooth and elegant collection, pulling together many cultures, many times, many places, yet leaving the reader feeling as though she has heard one consistent song--that of a woman looking for her place in the world.
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  • Eileen Shaw
    2.0 out of 5 stars "That toaster oven, hell, it's got everything!"
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on November 13, 2012
    The title story is a throwaway piece about looking for something a little different than the usual, appropriate man and getting into and quickly out of relationships with inappropriate men for a change. Hiccup and you miss it. I read all of these stories, but I wasn't moved, even by the first story which was one about child abuse. The second story started well with a young girl coming to stay in America after years living in Africa with her colonial parents. She is unaccountably revolted and disturbed by the warm welcome of the Jewish family she has been placed with. She writes asking to come home, but her parents just send her on to another family. And that's it. I didn't see the point.

    Some of the stories tackle the male/female dating dance with some hope and aplomb: "From the start it was clear to me that Ernest was different. He lied of course, but his lies were about me. They were the sort of compliments that a man in love makes to the woman he wants. Every now and then I would see him glance at other women. No man I knew, not even Ernest wanted one woman only. I myself wanted many men, just as most men wanted many women." And so on. I wasn't moved. There wasn't anything new or exciting about these stories. Often you can enjoy stories just for the recognition of the situation or something about the story itself. But these fell flat.

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