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Dangerous Relationships: How To Identify And Respond To The Seven Warning Signs Of A Troubled Relationship Kindle Edition
Possessiveness, insensitivity, and a sudden personality change are all warning signs of a potential abuser. Dangerous Relationships will help readers recognize a potentially violent personality before it’s too late. Interweaving real-life stories of four couples, Dr. Noelle Nelson highlights dangerous turning points in relationships and explains how readers can safely diffuse tension between their spouses, lovers, or roommate and protect themselves from abuse.
“An important book for every woman who has had an abusive relationship, or who is newly into a relationship in which there are warning signs surrounding control and power. No one deserves abuse, and Dr. Nelson has made it clear that the pattern can be discovered quite early in a relationship, and that a woman can get out before she gets hurt.” —Sherry Simmons, Executive Director, The Support Network for Battered Women
“I would highly recommend this book to anyone who may be in a violent relationship, or to a relative or close personal friend who has concerns about the safety of someone they love.” —Diane P. McGauley, Executive Director, The Family Place, Chair, Texas Council on Family Violence
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"An important book for every woman who has had an abusive relationship,or who is newly into a relationship in which there are warning signs surrounding control and power. Dr. Nelson has made it quite clear that the pattern can be discovered early in a relationship, and that a woman can get out before she gets hurt." -- Sherry Simmons, Executive Director, The Support Network for Battered Women
Domestic violence threatens to reach epidemic proportions in the United States. Recognizing the danger signs before irreparable harm occurs is the technique stressed in this insightful guide to identifying, avoiding or escaping these dangerous situations. -- Library Booknotes
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About the Author
Noelle Nelson, Ph.D., is a nationally respected clinical psychologist, trial consultant and author based in Malibu, California. Over the years, she has counseled hundreds of individuals caught in the pain of domestic violence and consulted in many domestic violence cases. As she counseled these victims of abuse, Dr. Nelson became increasingly convinced of the need for a preventive approach that could stop domestic violence before it had a chance to develop. She has been featured on CNN, CNBC, The Montel Williams Show, and The View.
Product details
- ASIN : B00ADOFRFG
- Publisher : Grand Central Publishing; 1st edition (April 27, 2009)
- Publication date : April 27, 2009
- Language : English
- File size : 2.9 MB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Not Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 338 pages
- Best Sellers Rank: #2,257,993 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #818 in Sociology of Marriage & Family (Kindle Store)
- #1,885 in Domestic Partner Abuse (Books)
- #2,659 in Self-Help for Abuse
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About the author

Through her many years as a trial and business consultant, relationship expert, author and speaker, Noelle C. Nelson Ph.D. has empowered countless individuals to be happier, healthier and more successful at work, home and in relationships.
Dr. Nelson shares her proactive and positive outlook in all her books, articles, interviews, seminars and in her consulting practice. Dr. Nelson's The Power of Appreciation: The Key to a Vibrant Life (Beyond Words Publishing) gives readers both the skills and the inspiration to turn negative situations around to lead rewarding, satisfying lives. As part of the "Power" series, she has written The Power of Appreciation in Business (MindLab Publishing) and The Power of Appreciation in Everyday Life (Insomniac Press). She is co-author with Rev. Cathy Norman, of Sermon on the Molehill (Mindlab Publishing).
Dr. Nelson is author of Happy Healthy...Dead: Why What You Think You Know About Aging is Wrong and How to Get It Right (Mindlab Publishing).
While doing research for Happy Healthy...Dead, she kept coming across people in their 70s, 80s, 90s, even 100s, who were happy, healthy and thriving. From there, she created "Meet The Amazings," which busts the preconceptions of our older generation. New Amazings are added each week: https://www.facebook.com/MeetTheAmazings.
Her most recent book (released in 2020) is I Survived COVID-19--What Now?! Finding Happiness and Success in a Post-COVID (Mindlab Publishing).
Other books include Dangerous Relationships: How to Identify and Respond to the Seven Warning Signs of a Troubled Relationship (De Capo Books), which along with Your Man Is Wonderful (Free Press) established Dr. Nelson as a relationship expert, Everyday Miracles (Prentice Hall Press), Winner Takes All: The Eight Keys to Developing a Winner's Attitude (Perseus Publishing) and Winning! Using Lawyers' Courtroom Techniques To Get Your Way In Everyday Situations (Prentice Hall; paperback Get Your Way). Her experiences as a trial consultant compelled her to write A Winning Case (Prentice Hall) and Connecting With Your Client (American Bar Association) for attorneys.
Her books have been endorsed by such authors as John Gray, Dr. Stephen R. Covey and Louise Hay. Dr. Nelson has been interviewed by CBS's "The Early Show," ABC's "The View," Fox News and CNN, and has been interviewed or authored articles in hundreds of other media in the U.S. and abroad including Redbook, Entrepreneur, Inc, Trial, Cosmo, People, Woman's Day, Canadian HR Reporter, HR Magazine, Leadership Excellence, Investor's Business Daily, Los Angeles Times and Family Business Magazine. Her comments on personal relationships are heard once a month on the Hitchedmag.com podcast.
Dr. Nelson has spoken at conferences on personal and workplace relationship issues in the US, Canada, Europe and Australia. She consistently receives outstanding marks from audience members.
Born in Manhattan to a French mother and an American dad, Dr. Nelson, at the tender age of six months, came to Southern California where she currently resides. Travel is a cherished pastime that Dr. Nelson enjoys whenever her schedule permits. Other interests include voracious reading (mysteries and historical fiction a great favorite), Latin Jazz, and snorkeling wherever warm tropical waters are to be found.
Dr. Nelson holds advanced degrees in clinical psychology from the United States International University (M.A., Ph.D.), and sociology degrees from the University of California at Los Angeles (B.A.) and the Sorbonne, Paris (Maitrise, Doctorat 3eme Cycle). She is a licensed clinical psychologist, with memberships in the American Society of Trial Consultants, the American Psychological Association, Psy Chi (National Honors Society in Psychology), and cited as one of the "100 Legal Consultants You Need to Know" in Lawdragon.
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- Reviewed in the United States on October 18, 2012What I liked most about this book is the detailed explanations the author provided.
If I would have had read this book 20 plus years ago, I may not have been in the poor relationships that I was in to begin with. I absolutely love the way she explained how the couples met and then explained what happened throughout the relationship with eventually ending it from a professional perspective of the things these individuals missed right at the very beginning of the relationship. It's certainly given me the opportunity to reflect back as well as look ahead in order to know some of the "hidden" signs of manipulation and control individuals have over you while you are still overwhelmed with the excitement of the relationship and the love you are feeling. I recommend this book to anyone that is looking for a way to see some of the not-so-good signs of a relationship early on in order to prevent a lot of misery later on.
I would also like to add that this book isn't exclusively about "romantic" relationships. Some are simply friendships, another subject in the book is a homosexual, while others are in a romantic love relationship.
It's amazing how there are people in all types of relationships that are manipulating, controlling, and abusive.
The book recommends, however, that you cannot use the tools in it to get out of a current "bad" relationship. It was written for future awareness for when you meet people down the road to see the various signs of behavior that can end up being dangerous.
Knowing the seven warning signs of a troubled relationship has definitely helped me to analyze and pick out behaviors that are indeed warning signs. I don't regret reading this book and highly recommend it for anyone that is serious about what to look for.
- Reviewed in the United States on June 24, 2017This book I read after I left a 20 year-old marriage. I needed to read this in 1980 or before I decided to marry someone who's small mission was.to make my life miserable but turned out to be one awesome and amazing sperm donor!!! Every woman owes it to herself to read this book. Every woman all women!!!!!!! Read this book. It's an eye opener in so meaningful and clear! Must read!!!!
- Reviewed in the United States on June 28, 2020I’m a therapist and find this book to be a wonderful resource. I’ve purchased it several times and have loaned it out repeatedly.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 10, 2010This book answers the question "How could this be happening to me?" when your dream relationship turns into a nightmare. When you realize your partner has become a raging monster and you're terrified to breathe, this book will explain why. I recommend reading it before you get into the worst relationship of your life, so you can say "NO" and walk away before it even begins.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 13, 2014This really points out things to watch for if you think you might be in a dangerouse relationship. It really helped me, and I ended the relationship.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 5, 2016Excellent book that everyone should read before getting into long term relationships. Also helps identify unhealthy relationships of all kinds.
- Reviewed in the United States on February 20, 2013This book changed the way I see so many things. Wish they taught this in high school,
Truly a value and a great read,
- Reviewed in the United States on June 20, 2019The book is helpful but also boring
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- philljaReviewed in the United Kingdom on October 22, 2015
4.0 out of 5 stars Excellent.
Excellent. Applied even if abuser didn't get as far as violence. Enjoyed having suggestions of what to say to abuser.