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Braving the Fire: A Guide to Writing About Grief and Loss First Edition, Kindle Edition

4.6 out of 5 stars 43 ratings

Braving the Fire is the first book to provide a road map for the journey of writing honestly about mourning, grief and loss. Created specifically by and for the writer who has experienced illness, loss, or the death of a loved one, Braving the Fire takes the writers' perspective in exploring the challenges and rewards for the writer who has chosen, with courage and candor, to be the memory keeper. It will be useful to the memoirist just starting out, as well as those already in the throes of coming to terms with complicated emotions and the challenges of shaping a compelling, coherent true story.

Loosely organized around the familiar Kübler-Ross model of Five Stages of Grief,
Braving the Fire uses these stages to help the reader and writer though the emotional healing and writing tasks before them, incorporating interviews and excerpts from other treasured writers who've done the same. Insightful contributions from Nick Flynn, Darin Strauss, Kathryn Rhett, Natasha Trethewey, and Neil White, among others, are skillfully bended with Handler's own approaches to facing grief a second time to be able to write about it. Each section also includes advice and wisdom from leading doctors and therapists about the physical experience of grieving.
Handler is a compassionate guide who has braved the fire herself, and delivers practical and inspirational direction throughout.

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“...a wise and encouraging guide.” ―Vanity Fair

“A wonderfully literary guide to life.” ―
Atlanta Magazine

Braving the Fire is the best book about memoir writing I've read. Jessica Handler provides a brilliant, empathic, and sturdy guide to help us begin, develop, and complete a work of art dealing with those difficult subjects we might fear exploring but which will become the wellspring of our most profound work.” ―Louise DeSalvo, author of Writing as a Way of Healing: How Telling Our Stories Transforms Our Lives

“Read this book!
Braving the Fire is brilliant, profound, thorough, and a delight. Through writing, it takes you to the core of your loss, honoring the uniqueness of your voice and ultimately revealing the beauty and power of your story, whatever it may be.” ―Susan Zimmerman, author of Keeping Katherine and Writing to Heal the Soul

“Jessica Handler beautifully illustrates how the power of our stories --well captured and conveyed-- can heal our deepest sorrows.
Braving the Fire is much more than a book by an eloquent writer for other writers. It is a must read for those who wish to live a life of transparency and to write with honesty about the journey.” ―River Jordan, author of Praying for Strangers: An Adventure of the Human Spirit

“Braving the Fire is a necessary companion for any writer who wishes to write about grief. Handler gently and honestly states the difficulty and rewards of recording our most haunting stories. There is a silver bullet of hope in this guide: the remembrances of our lost loves may very well be the key to living vivid lives, healing in technicolor.” ―
Christa Parravani, author of Her

About the Author

Jessica Handler’s first book, Invisible Sisters: A Memoir has been named by the Georgia Center for the Book as one of the “Twenty Five Books All Georgians Should Read,” and is one of the Atlanta Journal-Constitution’s “Eight Great Southern Books in 2009.” Atlanta Magazine named Invisible Sisters the “Best Memoir of 2009.” Her nonfiction has appeared on NPR (WABE-FM), in Tin House, Newsweek, Jezebel, The Writer, Brevity.com, More Magazine, Southern Arts Journal, Defunct, R.KV.RY, and Ars Medica, and New South. She was awarded a 2010 Fellowship at The Writers Center in Bethesda, the 2009 Peter Taylor Nonfiction Fellowship for the Kenyon Review Writers’ Workshop, and a special mention for a 2008 Pushcart Prize. She is a 2011 Writer In Residence at the Josef and Anni Albers Foundation (CT), visiting writer at Murray State’s (KY) MFA low-rez program and also at Oglethorpe University (Atlanta) this fall.

Handler has written on the topic of writing through grief for
The Writer magazine and Psychology Today online, and has been a featured speaker in grief and writing workshops with The Decatur (GA) Book Festival, The Atlanta Writers Club, Georgia Writers Association, The Chattahoochee Valley Writers Conference, The Oxford (MS) Creative Nonfiction Conference, Visiting Nurse Health Care Systems, and a featured speaker for the 2010 VistaCare Hospice Lecture Series. She was featured in the February issue of Vanity Fair, along with seven other fabulous southern female writers.

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00DA6XM5Q
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ St. Martin's Griffin; First edition (December 10, 2013)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ December 10, 2013
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 2.2 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 276 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.6 out of 5 stars 43 ratings

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Jessica Handler is the author of "Invisible Sisters: A Memoir." She has been the Peter Taylor Nonfiction Fellow at the Kenyon Review, and her work has received "Special Mention" for a 2008 Pushcart Prize. "Invisible Sisters" is an Atlanta Magazine "Best of 2009 Must Read" selection.

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Customers find the book helpful for writing about grief and loss, with specific tips to guide the process and exercises that assist in the writing journey. They appreciate the author's expertise, with one customer noting it serves as a standard text in many writing classes.

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"...The book is loaded with authoritative information from many different sources, and yet Handler manages to convey her messages in an accessible way..." Read more

"Pretty good book and great primer on the subject. You certainly won't find many other books to get you through this topic...." Read more

"Conversational and friendly, encouraging but honest, this is the guide I wish I'd known about when I was writing my own memoir about grief and loss...." Read more

"...personal experience, writing knowledge that can't be matched, and wonderful, wonderful, humor. Add this book to your shelf...." Read more

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Customers appreciate the book's writing knowledge, with specific tips to guide the process, and one customer noting it can be used for any type of writing.

"...her hard-won experience, she demonstrates how to process and translate grief literarily, using memoir, and shows examples of how she organized her..." Read more

"...Braving the Fire offers broad insights as well as specific tips to help guide the writing process -- ranging from how to get that "brain-..." Read more

"...It covers everything--from how to write about difficult characters, to how to do research and how to take care of your body during the process of..." Read more

"...She has grace, personal experience, writing knowledge that can't be matched, and wonderful, wonderful, humor. Add this book to your shelf...." Read more

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Chemically sensitive people beware this book.
I’ve only just started reading the book and so far I think it’s going to be helpful. The only problem is I couldn’t start reading it for a while because it was so strongly scented that I had to Offgas it in the hot sun for several days. See photo. I would love to read invisible sisters since I have read good reviews about it but I’m not risking another stinky book that exposes me to toxic chemicals in order to enjoy the book. Ms. Handler needs to speak to whoever is Distributing her book because many people cannot be exposed to fragrance chemicals without being made ill. She will lose customers for her book not because the content is not worthy but because the product is not healthy. Chemically sensitive people beware.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 20, 2014
    In this how-to write-memoir book, Handler describes her life and how she and her family dealt, or failed to deal, with the dysfunction. She introduces herself as the “well sister” (Note: not the surviving sister). Using her hard-won experience, she demonstrates how to process and translate grief literarily, using memoir, and shows examples of how she organized her material and used journals and “brain sparks” to make the story come alive.

    She gives memoir writers permission to tell the truth, but also to back away and rest from the intensity of the emotions they conjure. Ms. Handler’s book showed me my books are also about grief.

    BRAVING THE FIRE is a much better “memoir’ as a how-to book than is her memoir INVISIBLE SISTERS. She lost two sisters to rare diseases that lay dormant in the recesses of the family genes. She learned-while-writing her own memoir, how to do it. But in her memoir, she didn’t always follow her own advice. It has sporadic flashbacks, often expressed in metaphor rather than parable. BRAVING THE FIRE gets it right.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 27, 2013
    Jessica Handler is a triple threat: An engaging writer, a meticulous researcher, and a generous teacher. Braving the Fire offers broad insights as well as specific tips to help guide the writing process -- ranging from how to get that "brain-spark" that sets a story in motion, to dealing with the vagaries of human memory when writing a memoir, to strategies for self-care when dealing with painful emotions on the page. The book is loaded with authoritative information from many different sources, and yet Handler manages to convey her messages in an accessible way that keeps the reader turning pages. I predict that this book will become a standard text in many writing classes. It would be appropriate for high-school and M.F.A. students alike, or for anyone hoping to turn a story of personal grief and loss into a work of art.
  • Reviewed in the United States on September 16, 2016
    Pretty good book and great primer on the subject. You certainly won't find many other books to get you through this topic. A fast read and could even be used as a book group or undergrad textbook.
  • Reviewed in the United States on August 23, 2017
    Conversational and friendly, encouraging but honest, this is the guide I wish I'd known about when I was writing my own memoir about grief and loss. It covers everything--from how to write about difficult characters, to how to do research and how to take care of your body during the process of writing. I love the way Handler gives examples, along the way, of her own process. The exercises are helpful, too, and I'm sure I will use them in my classes. I'll also recommend this book to my students, for sure.
    2 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 13, 2014
    I live in Atlanta and was lucky enough to take a 5 hour writing workshop with Ms. Handler in February of 2014. We used the book in the workshop. It is excellent and could be used for any type of writing, not just loss. Those of us in the class, had all had significant traumas in life, and we found Jessica Handler an expert in dealing with this subject. She has grace, personal experience, writing knowledge that can't be matched, and wonderful, wonderful, humor. Add this book to your shelf. It is a must for those interested in perfecting their writing. Melanie Guthrie, Atlanta, GA
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 19, 2017
    I got a lot out of this book and liked the way it was structured around the stages of grief. Handler did a thorough job of weaving parts of her own grief memoir into the discussion of writing about grief. The book is full of sage advice for anyone "braving the fire."
  • Reviewed in the United States on March 20, 2014
    Everyone I've ever known writes. It is central to the human
    condition. It's only a matter of how much and how often we
    write. This wonderful book will be universally helpful. It shows
    us all how to write more clearly, and therapeutically, at a time
    when thinking clearly can be very challenging. Terrific!

    Eric Lindner
  • Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2018
    I’ve only just started reading the book and so far I think it’s going to be helpful. The only problem is I couldn’t start reading it for a while because it was so strongly scented that I had to Offgas it in the hot sun for several days. See photo. I would love to read invisible sisters since I have read good reviews about it but I’m not risking another stinky book that exposes me to toxic chemicals in order to enjoy the book. Ms. Handler needs to speak to whoever is Distributing her book because many people cannot be exposed to fragrance chemicals without being made ill. She will lose customers for her book not because the content is not worthy but because the product is not healthy. Chemically sensitive people beware.
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    Chemically sensitive people beware this book.

    Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2018
    I’ve only just started reading the book and so far I think it’s going to be helpful. The only problem is I couldn’t start reading it for a while because it was so strongly scented that I had to Offgas it in the hot sun for several days. See photo. I would love to read invisible sisters since I have read good reviews about it but I’m not risking another stinky book that exposes me to toxic chemicals in order to enjoy the book. Ms. Handler needs to speak to whoever is Distributing her book because many people cannot be exposed to fragrance chemicals without being made ill. She will lose customers for her book not because the content is not worthy but because the product is not healthy. Chemically sensitive people beware.
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