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How to Make Someone Fall in Love With You in 90 Minutes or Less Kindle Edition

by Nicholas Boothman (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
3.9 out of 5 stars 221 ratings
Building on the power of first impressions, Nicholas Boothman shows how to find and meet the love of your life—and have that person fall in love with you—in a mere 90 minutes, or approximately the time it takes to have a first dinner date. Now in paperback, this follow-up to his bestselling How to Make Someone Like You in 90 Seconds or Less is updated throughout with information on Internet dating, bringing together all of Mr. Boothman's considerable interpersonal skills to the problem of finding lasting love, fast.

And it works: The feedback Boothman has received from a number of his clients begins, "Please come to my wedding. . . ." Starting with a series of revealing self-assessment tests that show how to find your Matched Opposite (a person who makes you feel complete), here is how to make a fabulous first impression, with tips on everything from attitude to accessories; how to be charming, not alarming; introductions, opening lines, and the 1-2-3 mantra of never hesitating. There are techniques for starting and maintaining conversation and for finding "Me Too" moments, plus the importance of flirting, incidental touching, rules of self-disclosure, and more. Real-life examples and analyses of actual conversations show the method at work.
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    Workman Publishing Company
  4. Publication date
    January 9, 2009
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It's time to stop leaving love to chance. Time to stop being too shy to meet someone, wondering why a promising first date wound up going nowhere, or realizing too late that it happened with the wrong person anyway. Nicholas Boothman has a much better way.

Drawing on his expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Boothman charts a three-step plan that will help anyone find the love of his or her life. Step one: get ready come to know who you are through honest self-assessment, and then to know what type of person is your matched opposite i.e., the person who completes you. Step two, the heart of the program, is working seriously on interpersonal skills how to be charming, not alarming; flirt with confidence; synchronize body and voice to create trust and chemistry; keep enthusiasm high; even how to cast a wide social net and dress for a first meeting.

Step three is about accelerating the kind of intimacy that leads to love, by finding "Me too!" triggers and mastering the art of incidental touch. You'll learn to tap into key emotions through low-, medium-, and high-risk disclosures and how to intensify the nonverbal signals that turn sparks into a flame. All the while you'll establish a solid romantic foundation to convert this magic 90 minutes into a lifetime of love and commitment.

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Who Says You Can't Hurry Love?

Nicholas Boothman, bestselling author and expert in helping people connect, shows you how to recognize and attract the person who's best matched for you, then to quickly create feelings of love and intimacy. At the core of this simple, valuable book are dozens of easily learned verbal and nonverbal communication techniques that instill a newfound confidence and ease.

Forget speed dating. Now true love is just 90 minutes away.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00ESCVMOE
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Workman Publishing Company; Reprint edition (January 9, 2009)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ January 9, 2009
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1.9 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 322 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
    3.9 out of 5 stars 221 ratings

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Nicholas Boothman spent more than 35 years studying the ways in which all types of different people connect, communicate, and succeed. Today, he is called “one of the leading experts in face-to-face communication in the world” by The New York Times.

He has taught his revolutionary techniques of “Rapport by Design” and "Spontaneous Success" to thousands of individuals corporations, associations, and universities around the world including the Harvard and London Business schools.

His first two books, How to Make People Like You in 90 Seconds or Less and Convince Them in 90 Seconds or Less have been translated into more than 30 languages.

A former fashion and advertising photographer who dealt with hundreds of new faces a week for clients like AT&T, Revlon and Coca-Cola, he is now recognized as a world-renowned expert in turning first impressions into profitable relationships.

The New York Times calls him “the new Dale Carnegie,” the Economist Magazine calls him “truly inspirational,” and Good Morning America says, “His book is my bible!”

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Customers find the book's advice well-thought-out and practical, with one mentioning it helped them understand themselves better. Moreover, the content is engaging and effective, with customers saying it really works, and they appreciate its nice presentation. However, the title receives mixed reactions, with several customers describing it as a bad title. Additionally, opinions about the book's cheesiness are mixed, with some finding it okay while others consider it a gag book.

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33 customers mention "Advice"30 positive3 negative

Customers find the book's advice well-thought-out and down-to-earth, providing many tips to practice.

"...It begins presenting ways to improve general socials skills. And this is a VERY good thing, considering that too many people get lost in translation...." Read more

"...The book has given me many tips to go and practice next time I see any guy that catches my eye, things that I usually oversee or forget to do, not..." Read more

"...It discusses more about how to find someone who is compatible with you and when you do find that person, the best way not to screw up the encounter...." Read more

"...The book gave me many new perspectives relative to dating, was I really looking for a partner and if so what type of person would be a good fit...." Read more

26 customers mention "Readability"26 positive0 negative

Customers find the book readable and well worth their time.

"...But now I think is worth the money and the time...." Read more

"...Indeed, it is a bad title, for a great book that you read easily and with gusto...." Read more

"This book is well written and fun to read. It has great insight on how to discover more about yourself and what you are looking for...." Read more

"This is the type of text, just the way I like it. Philosophical, scientific, interactive, and it drops many bits of wisdom for the reader...." Read more

7 customers mention "Effectiveness"7 positive0 negative

Customers find the book's advice effective, with one mentioning how well the tips work when combined.

"...You can find some really good ideas to use with good results." Read more

"...techniques to use, but I was surprised at just how well this advice worked when put all together. Highly recommended." Read more

"...I was surprised to find that some of the tips in this book actually work...." Read more

"...this one is a little more specialized than the rest, it is still very useful...." Read more

5 customers mention "Attractiveness"5 positive0 negative

Customers find the book nice, with one mentioning that the themes are good and another noting that how to present yourself effectively is well-covered.

"...examples provided are a bit cheesy and unrealistic but the themes themselves are good...." Read more

"...the past, really shows, as his advice on how to dress and present yourself is really good...." Read more

"Instructive book. Very nice.. I recommend it to those with issue getting the right partner." Read more

"So I purchased this digital book because it looked interesting but I never received it but it charged me for it" Read more

7 customers mention "Cheesiness"3 positive4 negative

Customers have mixed opinions about the book's cheesiness, with some finding it an okay gag-book while others describe it as silly.

"...Some of the examples provided are a bit cheesy and unrealistic but the themes themselves are good...." Read more

"...Instead, it's nicely written...not silly at all....and is well worth your while with well thought-out bits of advice...." Read more

"Crap! It’s written ages ago and totally cheesy ! I didn’t even get through it . And it’s just common sense drivel!" Read more

"It's an okay gag-book as a cheeky present or something, but it's not to be taken seriously. Don't look to this book as a self-esteem booster." Read more

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Customers express dissatisfaction with the book's title.

"...The target audience for this book is likely not me. The title is misleading." Read more

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  • Alexa
    5.0 out of 5 stars a good surprise
    Reviewed in the United States on May 3, 2013
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    This book is much better than i expected. It begins presenting ways to improve general socials skills. And this is a VERY good thing, considering that too many people get lost in translation. And this is not so amusing when you travel a lot in different countries and sometimes you need to do your best in a short conversation.
    Since my marriage is going down the hill for some time now, I started looking for some books to give some ideas about what to do. I wasn't sure exactly what to expect from this book, and I wasn't sure if there is anything useful inside. But now I think is worth the money and the time.
    When you arrive to the parts that really talk about flirting ... then you're in for a good laugh. But I still think this is one of the best books about flirting. For young and not so young people (who may be a little out of practice). You can find some really good ideas to use with good results.
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  • Joseph
    3.0 out of 5 stars This book provides the reader with good advise and steps on how to learn and utilize ...
    Reviewed in the United States on September 27, 2015
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    This book provides the reader with good advise and steps on how to learn and utilize the information contained within it. Some of the examples provided are a bit cheesy and unrealistic but the themes themselves are good. The book does not describe what is to happen after those first 90 minutes, which is disappointing, but perhaps that was not the point of the book. This book will not help you maintain and develop and already initiated relationship- it is mostly about meeting people and beginning one.
    2 people found this helpful
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  • M. T. D. C. M.
    4.0 out of 5 stars Great advice, bad title
    Reviewed in the United States on October 28, 2011
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    I felt awful a buying a book with this title. I did purchase it because it has been recommended to me and because of the good reviews. I thought, jeez, I am not desperate. I am not a fool to believe that any man can fall in love with me in 90 minutes. Indeed, it is a bad title, for a great book that you read easily and with gusto.

    I always love date and relationship books for women written by men, because, well, they know their stuff first hand. Moreover, they usually cut the crap that other books for single ladies give. This is also the case of the author here, who makes a great job at giving advice, reasons for the advice, and offering tips and techniques to practice what he preaches.

    The concept of matched opposite is truly helpful, and makes complete sense, even though many women find themselves pursuing men who are like them, a version of themselves, not the best man for them.

    The fact that the author was a fashion photographer in the past, really shows, as his advice on how to dress and present yourself is really good. Nothing really new, or wow, but still you know it comes from a professional.

    The book has given me many tips to go and practice next time I see any guy that catches my eye, things that I usually oversee or forget to do, not realising how important they are to get the attention of any man, beyond the looks. I have been practising his advice of looking at the colour of somebody's eyes to learn how to make eye contact, and it really works. There are many tips you can put into practice.

    One of those books that you go back to check for advice over and over again.
    33 people found this helpful
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  • John Spinhirne
    5.0 out of 5 stars Good Book! Bad Title!
    Reviewed in the United States on April 27, 2009
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    This book is well written and fun to read. It has great insight on how to discover more about yourself and what you are looking for. It discusses more about how to find someone who is compatible with you and when you do find that person, the best way not to screw up the encounter. It is NOT a book on how to date as many people as you can and have sex with them. It is geared towards finding that one special person most of us are looking for and building a long lasting relationship with them.

    I would never have bought the book on the title alone because the title means something completely different to me. So I think it is a bad title.

    I would recommend this book to someone looking for additional insight in the dating field and finding true love.
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  • slurn68
    1.0 out of 5 stars Don’t waste your time
    Reviewed in the United States on February 6, 2025
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    Crap! It’s written ages ago and totally cheesy ! I didn’t even get through it . And it’s just common sense drivel!
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  • Margaret Page
    5.0 out of 5 stars Love the Book/Loathed the Title
    Reviewed in the United States on September 24, 2013
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    I loved this book! I was not keen on the title but I like the writers background and expertise and there were few books in the same realm. The book gave me many new perspectives relative to dating, was I really looking for a partner and if so what type of person would be a good fit. I have yet to master some of the techniques but I am working on them. I enjoyed the book so much I have given 3 away as gifts. Who says the title sells....
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  • bigfoot12
    5.0 out of 5 stars Liked it so much on my Kindle, I actually decided to buy a paperback.
    Reviewed in the United States on October 19, 2013
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    This is the type of text, just the way I like it. Philosophical, scientific, interactive, and it drops many bits of wisdom for the reader. Many conversation examples are included in this book.

    I can already tell this is an awesome book. If you REALLY truly want to successfully engage in conversation with many people, than you'd better buy this book and add it to your library. You sure won't regret it.
    6 people found this helpful
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  • T-dog
    2.0 out of 5 stars Crap
    Reviewed in the United States on November 15, 2014
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    Someone told me this was an interesting read that provided good insights into human relations. Most of the crap in this book is so obvious I'm stunned that someone would think to write it down. The target audience for this book is likely not me. The title is misleading.
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  • Mr H.
    5.0 out of 5 stars Useful and fun.
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 13, 2023
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    As above.
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  • M.Greg
    5.0 out of 5 stars super livre
    Reviewed in France on May 3, 2009
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    Genial comme d'habitude avec cet auteur.
    Je vous conseillerai dans ce domaine Turchet et lowndes leil.
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  • Jeannie Philpott
    5.0 out of 5 stars ok
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on August 20, 2019
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    not sure what I felt about this really
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  • NaRoLi
    4.0 out of 5 stars leicht zu lesen und lehrreich
    Reviewed in Germany on July 15, 2014
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    Ich habe an diesem Buch gefallen gefunden. Nach dem aus meiner 25 Jährigen beziehung fühlte ich mich total verloren, vor allem, was die neuen Arten des Kennenlernens betrifft. Ich bin zwar noch nicht so weit das Gelesene in Taten umzusetzen, werde es aber in ein paar Monaten wiederlesen. Es hat mir vor allem jetzt den Horizont geöffnet und Mut gegeben.
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  • Amazon Kunde
    3.0 out of 5 stars Naja
    Reviewed in Germany on May 17, 2020
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    Leider nicht das, was ich erwartet habe. Viel generelle Tipps, aber wenig konkretes.
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