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Discovering the Mind of a Woman: The Key to Becoming a Strong and Irresistable Husband is... Kindle Edition

by Ken Nair (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars 413 ratings
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As the founder and president of Life Partners, a renowned discipleship ministry, bestselling author Ken Nair has discipled more than five hundred men in how to become more Christlike husbands--all of whom have experienced renewal and restoration in their relationships. Now, he's here to help you do the same.

Drawing from stories from his own marriage, as well as the journeys of countless husbands whose marriages were dissolving, Nair reveals major roadblocks in life and in marriage.

As you learn more about your spouse in Discovering the Mind of a Woman, you'll gain the tools you need to:

  • Experience God in your marriage
  • Truly meet the needs of your spouse
  • Become a spiritual leader within your marriage

What follows within the pages of Discovering the Mind of a Woman are life-changing concepts that won't just revive a marriage, they'll change your perspective forever. 

Praise for Discovering the Mind of a Woman:

"I am glad for this book. After fifty-five years of Christian marriage, I find thoughts here that will help me be more thoughtful of my wife's needs. It has helped me understand why and how she thinks differently than I do about so many things. A husband, as this book points out, is to live with and love his wife with understanding. This change in a husband and the consequent response by a wife result in life-changing home life, and together radiate to many others, for the glory of Christ."

--Kenneth N. Taylor, translator of The Living Bible

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In Discovering the Mind of Women husbands learn to understand their wives as Christ would. From this point they learn to respond to their wives in a consistent Christlike manner. A radically transformed and renewed marriage is the result.Drawing from his own story and the stories of husbands whose marriages were dissolving, Ken Nair reveals major problems in life and marriage. After discussing the problems, he reveals relationship altering concepts which not only will revive a marriage, they will radiate throughout couple's lives as well.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00L816AEU
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Thomas Nelson (September 7, 1995)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ September 7, 1995
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 1108 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
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  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 255 pages
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    4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars 413 ratings

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4.6 out of 5 stars
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Wrong language and wrong book!
I was sent the Spanish version apparently... would appreciate the English version please.UPDATE: it’s not even the right book! The cover is t even for the book that’s inside which also is not in English... is this a joke?!
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5.0 out of 5 stars EVERY MAN IN THE WORLD SHOULD READ THIS. ITS A GIFT FROM HEAVEN!
Reviewed in the United States on November 6, 2022
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A few people in these reviews have said it's the next best book they've read (besides the Bible). Well, I agree and have had the same experience. There are simply not enough words to express how much this book has changed my life and marriage. After trying every marriage resource under the sun for over a decade, this right here is the one that made the difference. As for the 1 star reviews... I believe it's other men who aren't ready enough to face the truth and reality of the responsibility God gave them. They're still stuck in blame mode. Scripture backs these concepts up again and again and again. Furthermore, the author is NOT saying women are perfect etc. He knows they will stand before God one day too. He is highlighting the authority and responsibility that was given to MAN.
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Merry Mary
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing! Completely different from every other marriage improvement book! The suggestions in the book do work!
Reviewed in the United States on October 13, 2017
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Amazing book! Completely different from every other marriage improvement book I've ever read. This book is so challenging that I doubt most men will accept the challenges the author presents. The entire book is predicated on the foundation that husbands are to live with their wives in an understanding way (I Peter 3:7). One passage from p. 119 demonstrates this"If your wife is pleasant, easy to live with, and able to handle the stresses of life confidently, then you are, in all likelihood ministering to the needs of her spirit"

The author views a marriage form the Biblical perspective that the man is the initiator and the wife is designed to respond to him. So, if the wife is constantly upset, unhappy, complaining, etc. then the husband has failed to minister to her spirit adequately. Ken Nair then provides the answers by presenting 4 male prejudices men have against women; 6 qualities that endear men to women; 5 symptoms of an uncared for wife; 6 indicators of unsolved communication problems and 3 major Biblical concepts vital to a successful marriage.

The author provides plenty of useful examples from his years as a marriage counselor and they resonate with me. I would recommend this as a textbook for any man serious about improving his marriage and willing to make the changes the author recommends.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Seriously accurate, with amazing insight into areas I was struggling with in my marriage.
Reviewed in the United States on August 8, 2018
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Amazing book! Seriously! I’ve read several good books on the male/female relationship/connection/psychology issues that most of us seem to have, and this one just takes the cake for describing perfectly the issues in several areas I was having understanding and relating to my wife! My friend who recommended it to me, recommended it as “the first book to actually open my eyes as to what went wrong with my previous marriage”. I am actually going to shortly order several printed copies to loan to my friends, and recommend it to many young men as “the book you must read before you get serious with any prospective wife”. Please note, probably many men will hate this book because it outlines the Biblical teaching of how a wife will respond and grow with the mans appropriate care, which is quite opposite to how many western cultures think it should be done. I can personally testify that after honestly applying the truths in this book, there has been an absolute fantastic change in my relationship with my wife for the good, where previously we were not doing well at all. Thanks Ken Nair for writing this! (No I don’t personally know the author, and I have nothing materially to gain from writing such a high review, I just think this sort of truth needs to be shared).
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DougH
4.0 out of 5 stars challenging to men
Reviewed in the United States on November 13, 2016
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There are a lot of action items in this for husbands, but by his own admission, the author makes it almost sound as if the woman can do no wrong. If you are a husband and wondering what you can do to make your wife feel more honored and fall deeper in love with you, this book will give you plenty of things to do.
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haroula
5.0 out of 5 stars This is the marriage book you’ve been looking for!
Reviewed in the United States on December 19, 2023
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Guys guys guys! I CANNOT express enough how important it is to read this book. 10/10 best marriage book of this generation (besides the Bible of course)
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ashleydwille
5.0 out of 5 stars Finally!
Reviewed in the United States on March 23, 2015
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Finally! A book for husbands that gives them the precise insight and perspective they need to love their wives with the heart of Christ as God intends. The personalized application of the ancient Hebrew is the best source for original intent, and right where Ken begins and ends. Thank you, God, for tapping Ken on the shoulder and correcting him in his own marriage and family, and then turning his lessons into a powerful, healing ministry for marriages all over. Including mine. Without God leading me to Ken's book and his discipleship lessons via Skype for my husband, I cannot say that we would be living together.
Unfortunately, I ran across some whiny, defensive reviews of this book from a select few men claiming that Ken's book "makes everything the husband's fault." Don't be deterred by these carnal reactions to truth. The husband greatly influences the wife (sometimes more than he wants to accept) and as a result, she responds to him (sometimes in survival mode). God specifically designed this relational dance in the marriage. Ken simply teaches men first how to avoid unintentionally stepping on their wives' toes... or feet or trampling them to the floor in some cases. Then he moves on to explain how to actually receive and love them with Christ's heart so that she develops deep trust in him, trust being the foundational layer of intimacy and lasting marriage. Ken also includes chapters on the emotionally different types of wives depending on their personal and marital history, and how to best approach each.
Lay down your pride, guys, and fulfill your highest calling of loving your wife. Very highly recommended! Thank you, Ken!
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MRS JM BIRD
5.0 out of 5 stars but this guy has a lot of insights into the female psychie and the fact that we are like this because God wants us to be
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 14, 2015
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Probably gave it a 5 because I'm a woman and it helped me at a particularly difficult time. Reckon most men wouldn't score it so high, but this guy has a lot of insights into the female psychie and the fact that we are like this because God wants us to be, with all the emotional frustration that we feel. Blokes don't get it do they?! We are God's secret weapon. A lot of condemnation just slipped away whilst I was reading. Its balanced as well as I do realise we both have to change.
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Devonbiker
1.0 out of 5 stars I hate the feminist ideology in this book
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 12, 2023
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I was recommended to read this book by 2x pastors from 2x different churches. Even a friend highly recommended it.

Right from the start the book blames husbands for problems in the marriage. I really struggled to read and listen to this book (I have the book and audio). It has a strong feminist ideology that pretends women can do no wrong, and if they do it’s the man’s fault. Fix the man and your marriage will get better. What utter nonsense because it’s not worked for me. The fact this book is popular is more of an indicator of how feminism has subtly got into the church. In my experience men are treated very differently to women. With men much change and sacrifice is expected, if not demanded. With women they usually find support networks or friends who rarely challenge them, but rather enable them rather than holding them to account for their part in a struggling marriage.

There’s no doubt there are some good advise for men in this book but the over arching message is YOU ARE TO BLAME and for that I cannot recommend this book. There has to be balance and fairness because women can behave very poorly as well.
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richard dodds
4.0 out of 5 stars a lot go good info regarding Christian relationships with your wife
Reviewed in Canada on January 29, 2017
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a lot go good info regarding Christian relationships with your wife. I was expecting something a little different,but it still gave food for thought. I am blessed that my wife is not hard to figure out as she wears her Christian faith on her sleeve.
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