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The Power of Curiosity: How to Have Real Conversations That Create Collaboration, Innovation and Understanding Kindle Edition

4.2 out of 5 stars 87 ratings

Use the power of curiosity to transform challenging conversations into productive, meaningful, relationship-building experiences at work, home, or school.

As leaders, parents, or teachers, navigating difficult conversations is part of the job. How do we keep calm and achieve a productive outcome, all while keeping our relationships intact?

The secret is curiosity.

Curiosity is the innovation-driving, emotion-calming skill that comes so naturally to us as children, but gets so easily buried beneath our busy, multitasking lifestyles. The good news is that we simply have to relearn what we already know!
In
The Power of Curiosity, mother-daughter executive coaching team Kathy Taberner and Kirsten Taberner-Siggins walk you through the Curiosity Skills and introduce a step-by-step process to use anytime—but especially when challenging conversations arise. In The Power of Curiosity you’ll learn:
  • How to be fully present in every conversation, even when distractions abound
  • The five listening choices you always have available at home, work, or school
  • Specific calming strategies to access when negative emotions run high
A step-by-step process to transform potential conflict into relationship-building opportunities.

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"The Power Of Curiosity is the leadership handbook for the 21st century giving you a simple step by step method to have real conversations that navigate conflict with innovative outcomes." - Daymond John, Award Winning Entrepreneur, Fashion Mogul, and Star of ABC's Shark Tank.
"Kathy and Kirsten have drawn on their extensive experience as executive coaches to help all of us learn to pause, take a breath, and - instead of thoughtlessly reacting, assuming, judging, or blaming -begin to get curious. They offer thoughtful guidance and practical tools at the heart of the matter: clarity, understanding and real human connection." -
Brigid Shulte, New York Times bestselling author of Overwhelmed: Work, Love, and Play When No One Has the Time
"Kathy and Kirsten's work on being present when we listen to others, and choosing how to listen, has had a profound impact on my conflict resolution work as a mediator and negotiation trainer.
The Power of Curiosity is a must read for learning how to apply these skills to our difficult conversations, and indeed all our conversations - to listen better, truly understand and connect with others, and move forward in our relationships - whether negotiating a large business contract, acting as a leaders in our organizations, or enriching our personal relationships". - Colleen Cattell, ENS International Negotiation Consultant

"
The Power of Curiosity nails it! It is exactly how every successful person I know lives or strives to live their life. A must read!" Joey Gibbons, The Gibbons Hospitality Group

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How can we fully engage in conversations with people we disagree with--while remaining calm and producing win-win outcomes? The key is curiosity, something we all naturally have as kids but that tends to get buried beneath our adult responsibilities and multitasking lifestyles. In The Power of Curiosity, executive coaches and leadership experts Kathy Taberner and Kirsten Taberner Siggins help us relearn those skills of curiosity we already have and apply them to ourselves and others, allowing us to address conflict at its true source, neutralize negative emotions, and transform challenging conversations into new possibilities and better relationships.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00R3SQIWG
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Morgan James Publishing (January 1, 2015)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ January 1, 2015
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 4.7 MB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 192 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.2 out of 5 stars 87 ratings

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Curiosity is a Route to Better Relationships, with Yourself and Others
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Curiosity is a Route to Better Relationships, with Yourself and Others
Curiosity. It's a big topic, and there's a lot to explore. I so appreciated the variety of tools that Taberner and Siggins offered to enable readers to take action based on their awareness. Some of my most important takeaways: 1. There are many ways to listen, only some of which are curios 2. Curiosity about your own beliefs, where they came from, and whether they are true can help you be more compassionate towards yourself and create new opportunities for success. 3. Knowing your values gives you a solid anchor whenever you are exploring. 4. In an organizational setting, and even in a family, asking curious questions enables more creative solutions, buy-in, and ownership for the accountability in taking action. 5. "The solution to conflict is not to avoid it, but to recognize it and respond with curiosity to defuse negative emotions early on." (p. xxiv) 6. If all this sounds difficult, and you wonder if you can stay calm in situations where differences arise, the authors also offer calming strategies. Well done, Kathy and Kirsten! You've created a great resource for leaders, coaches, and anyone who wants to connect more effectively with others. Ann V. Deaton, PhD, PCC, Author of VUCA Tools for a VUCA World: Developing Leaders and Teams for Sustainable Results
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  • Reviewed in the United States on March 14, 2016
    Stop blaming, start learning what's going on...

    What's your preferred way of bridging differences in values and opinions?

    As one who studies communication, connection and conflict, I really appreciated this book's balance, content, breadth and style. The writers are coaches who bring a relevance and accessibility to curiosity that has been intellectualized by previous writers on this topic.

    As we live in a collaborative world today, I found it helpful as a reset for industrial age (hierarchical) thinking, making it a great fit for a new society where information is immediately available to all.

    The book's chapters layout an easy-to-follow, transformative process designed to engage each other -- without triggering each other's hot buttons. In addition, the authors offer you a very useful and rich (PDF) workbook that has all of the charts, diagrams, and many exercises.

    I paid for the Kindle version, and I have underlined a LOT of content, and have only a few chapters to go. Soon I realized that I wanted to buy the voice version, as it's easier/faster for me to absorb the material by ear, and I can listen to it at the gym or driving. The Audible version is exceptionally well-performed and very easy to listen to, unlike some other narrations that are not so pleasing to the ear.

    This is a wonderful and complete effort that will help many people who desire to ask more / better questions to create greater understanding, find and create common ground/alignment, and levels the playing field. It's a valuable contribution to the world of appreciative inquiry literature.

    I am glad I learned about it and am pleased to recommend it.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 6, 2016
    The Power of Curiosity is a well-written, comprehensive book about how curiosity can enrich our lives and strengthen our relationships. Not only did I find this book helpful in enhancing interactions in my own life, as a parent, it helped me see the importance of fostering curiosity with my children. By being an engaged parent who listens, I can deepen my connection with my kids. Furthermore, by fostering a spirit of curiosity and discovery, I can help them grow into more effective, competent communicators and life-long learners.

    Authors Kathy Taberner and Kirsten Siggins do an excellent job of explaining how curiosity can help us in all kinds of conversations. For example, few us were ever taught how to engage in conflict in a respectful and thoughtful manner. Conflict brings up powerful emotions. Many of us go into confrontation with the goal of shutting the other person down--or we aren’t even sure what outcome is that we’re hoping for. While we don't have to agree with the other person, by taking time to listen and asking curious (non-judgmental) questions, we can better understand why the other person feels the way she does and then enjoy a meaningful, respectful dialogue.

    I highly recommend this book to parents who want to raise skilled communicators and to anyone wishing to enhance their communication IQ.
    4 people found this helpful
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 24, 2019
    This book provides a simple and practical approach to engaging with people in all settings. Easy read. Invaluable if applied!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 20, 2015
    This book is so inspiring! It has helped me become more mindful of how I listen and speak to others especially my husband and children! I was blessed to meet the author Kirsten in person! She's just brilliant! I wish I had her in my daily life to help me become a better person! This book is a must! If we all spoke and listened to eachother this way we would have a world of peace! I just love it!!!!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 19, 2020
    I have a huge problem with communicating with others, and even when I do effective communication is not the outcome. This book has changed my life and has helped save my marriage, career, and friendships! I cannot thank the authors enough for writing this book!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on February 12, 2019
    thx Kathy, thx Kirsten... very very wonderfull book.. change me .. find my blind spot when listening.. recommended book for parent and coach
  • Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2021
    I needed this for a research paper. Thank you!
  • Reviewed in the United States on February 18, 2017
    I was really excited to read this book and explore the subject and power of curiosity. To read about examples of encouraging it and using it to be inspired but alas after forcing my way through about 1/3 of the book I couldn't take it anymore. This reads like some monotone mandatory HR lecture taught by someone who tells us extremely simplistic things in really uninspired and boring examples. Sorry, I give it one star.
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  • Colleen Alexandra gibbons
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    Reviewed in Canada on May 29, 2015
    I found "The Power of Curiosity" to be an instruction manual for how to produce miracles in your relationships & in your life. It is magnificent I enjoyed he way the authors gave personal examples of situations which could be solved by using their techniques. I loved this book and look forward to a world that operates in this way.
  • Angela
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great condition
    Reviewed in Canada on September 11, 2019
    I bought this book for my nursing class. It came in as expected and it was in great condition! Just a few creased corners, but that was it. Super happy with this purchase.
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    5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
    Reviewed in Canada on April 30, 2017
    A refreshing and inspiring read on how to approach our lives.

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