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Inspired by the website that the New York Times hailed as "redefining mourning," this book is a fresh and irreverent examination into navigating grief and resilience in the age of social media, offering comfort and community for coping with the mess of loss through candid original essays from a variety of voices, accompanied by gorgeous two-color illustrations and wry infographics.
At a time when we mourn public figures and national tragedies with hashtags, where intimate posts about loss go viral and we receive automated birthday reminders for dead friends, it’s clear we are navigating new terrain without a road map.
Let’s face it: most of us have always had a difficult time talking about death and sharing our grief. We’re awkward and uncertain; we avoid, ignore, or even deny feelings of sadness; we offer platitudes; we send sympathy bouquets whittled out of fruit.
Enter Rebecca Soffer and Gabrielle Birkner, who can help us do better. Each having lost parents as young adults, they co-founded Modern Loss, responding to a need to change the dialogue around the messy experience of grief. Now, in this wise and often funny book, they offer the insights of the Modern Loss community to help us cry, laugh, grieve, identify, and—above all—empathize.
Soffer and Birkner, along with forty guest contributors including Lucy Kalanithi, singer Amanda Palmer, and CNN’s Brian Stelter, reveal their own stories on a wide range of topics including triggers, sex, secrets, and inheritance. Accompanied by beautiful hand-drawn illustrations and witty "how to" cartoons, each contribution provides a unique perspective on loss as well as a remarkable life-affirming message.
Brutally honest and inspiring, Modern Loss invites us to talk intimately and humorously about grief, helping us confront the humanity (and mortality) we all share. Beginners welcome.
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHarper
- Publication dateJanuary 23, 2018
- File size49091 KB
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“Modern Loss is a book about grieving and death that shimmers with life. In turn raw, searing, charming, witty and funny—Modern Loss is full of surprises and is definitely not your mother’s death and dying book.” -- Dave Isay, Founder, Storycorps
“I am not sure how a book about grief could also be witty and entertaining, but Modern Loss accomplishes just that.” -- Mindy Kaling, writer for The Office and author of Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?
“A very relatable and real book of personal essays written that cover almost every grief and loss topic and pulls no punches.” -- Strategist
“Loss is devastating, but this frank and funny book makes it less isolating. I want to give it to everyone I know who is grieving, has grieved, or will grieve. In other words, I want to give it to everyone” -- Anna Sale, host of WNYC’s Death, Sex and Money
“Profound, irreverent, probing, and consoling, Modern Loss is the guide to grief I wish I’d had when my mother died at 55. Mourning a parent years earlier than my peers, I felt alone with my loss. This is the company I wish I’d kept in those first years; Soffer and Birkner have compiled a book that feels like sitting with your best friends over dinner and laughing and crying and connecting over the most profound experiences you can have.” -- Meghan O'Rourke, author of The Long Goodbye
“Talking about loss can feel scary. This book isn’t. It’s about grieving deeply over the long term, and the reassurance that you’re far from broken because of it. These surprisingly funny and candid stories aren’t about death; they’re about life, and thriving in the face of loss.” -- Stephen Colbert
“I love this book! Humans spilling their feelings with so much humility, hope, and humor.” -- Nancy Lublin, Founder and CEO, Crisis Text Line
“Devastatingly poignant, Modern Loss took me to a safe place and allowed me to feel comforted by reading about something that I’ve always feared: death. Especially as I deal with aging parents, I found myself feeling some of my anguish dissipate as I was reminded of the universality of grieving. It allowed me to take a breath, and I needed to. We all do.” -- Lisa Ling, host and executive producer of CNN’s “This Is Life”
“Finally, a book that fearlessly embraces grief and finds heretofore undiscovered areas of inspiration, humor and above all, light. Modern Loss is our collective Modern Gain.” -- Damon Lindelof, co-creator of Lost and The Leftovers
From the Back Cover
Inspired by the website hailed as “redefining mourning” by theNew York Times, a wise and irreverent collection of essays and tips on navigating grief in the modern age
Let’s face it: most of us have a difficult time talking about death and sharing our grief. We’re awkward and uncertain; we avoid, ignore, or even deny feelings of sadness; we offer platitudes; we send sympathy bouquets whittled out of fruit.
And at a time when we mourn public figures and national tragedies with hashtags, when intimate posts about loss go viral and we receive automated birthday reminders for dead friends, it’s clear we are exploring this modern landscape of loss without a road map.
Enter Rebecca Soffer and Gabrielle Birkner, who can help us do better. Each having lost parents as young adults, they cofounded the website Modern Loss, responding to a need to change the dialogue around the messy experience of grief. Now, in this wise and often funny book, they offer the insights of the Modern Loss community to help us cry, laugh, grieve, identify, and—above all—empathize.
Soffer and Birkner, along with more than forty guest contributors, including rocker Amanda Palmer, CNN’s Brian Stelter, and Dr. Lucy Kalanithi (widow of When Breath Becomes Air author Paul Kalanithi), reveal their own stories on a wide range of topics, such as triggers, intimacy, secrets, inheritance, and more. Accompanied by beautiful hand-drawn illustrations and witty how-to cartoons, each contribution provides a unique perspective on loss as well as a remarkable life-affirming message.
Brutally honest and inspiring, Modern Loss invites us to talk intimately and humorously about grief, helping us confront the humanity (and mortality) we all share. Beginners welcome.
About the Author
Rebecca Soffer is the cofounder and CEO of Modern Loss. A former producer for the Peabody Award-winning Colbert Report, Rebecca is a nationally recognized speaker on the topics of loss and resilience. She is a Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism alumna and contributes regularly to books, magazines, and other media. Rebecca lives in New York City and the Berkshires with her husband and two children.
Product details
- ASIN : B071KT2RVR
- Publisher : Harper; Illustrated edition (January 23, 2018)
- Publication date : January 23, 2018
- Language : English
- File size : 49091 KB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Sticky notes : On Kindle Scribe
- Print length : 376 pages
- Best Sellers Rank: #305,784 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #62 in Grief & Loss (Kindle Store)
- #70 in Sociology of Death (Kindle Store)
- #307 in Death & Grief (Kindle Store)
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About the authors
Rebecca Soffer is cofounder of Modern Loss, a website and global movement offering creative, meaningful and encouraging content and community addressing the long arc of grief. She is also coauthor of the book MODERN LOSS: CANDID CONVERSATION ABOUT GRIEF. BEGINNERS WELCOME (Harper Wave, 2018), which debuted as a #1 new release on Amazon and "The Strategist" named a best book on loss for a younger generation. Rebecca is also the author of THE MODERN LOSS HANDBOOK: AN INTERACTIVE GUIDE TO MOVING THROUGH GRIEF AND BUILDING YOUR RESILIENCE (Running Press, 2022). Rebecca also writes and publisher the Modern Loss newsletter, a long form monthly deep dive into various themes stemming from grief. She has been featured across media, including on "CBS Sunday Morning," NPR, NY1, MSNBC, Fox, and CTV; led retreats at Kripalu; and spoken nationally on loss and resilience at Chicago Ideas Week, HBO, Capital One, SoFi, and Amazon. Her writing has appeared in outlets such as The New York Times, Marie Claire, Glamour and NBC. Rebecca is a former producer for the Peabody Award-winning "The Colbert Report" and a Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism alumna. She lives in New York City and the Berkshires in Western Massachusetts.
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Eileen Smith is a Brooklyn-born expat living in Santiago, Chile since 2004. She writes about travel, culture, food and wine and is motivated by themes of connection, belonging and place. She loves essays most of all, and one of her favorites is published in Modern Loss (2018). She has written stories for NPR's The Salt, Monocle, Robb Report, Fodor's, Tales of the Cocktail and many others. She speaks native-like Spanish and has traveled extensively in the Americas.
Eileen is currently also seeking representation for a memoir about living to be older than her father, a book that is ultimately about finding home.
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This book is for all who will live our lives and experience expected and unexpected losses. It should be added to the shelf of all therapists, clergy and the rest of mortals. Thank you Gabrielle and Rebecca.
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I Highley recommend it to all as I think it would be educational to even those who've not experienced greif!
Only bad point: I was under the impression that this was the book for young people who have lost parents (I believe this was from a website and not the book however hence the 5 stars) and its nor specifically around this topic.