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What Would Mrs. Astor Do?: The Essential Guide to the Manners and Mores of the Gilded Age (Washington Mews Books, 5) Kindle Edition

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This illustrated Gilded Age etiquette guide offers “proof that sliding around the naughty edges of society can be as informative as it is entertaining.” (Alida Becker, The New York Times Books Review)
 
Mark Twain called it the Gilded Age. Between 1870 and 1900, the United States’ population doubled, accompanied by an unparalleled industrial expansion and an explosion of wealth. America was the foremost nation of the world, and New York City was its beating heart. There, the richest and most influential—Thomas Edison, J. P. Morgan, Edith Wharton, the Vanderbilts, Andrew Carnegie, and more—became icons, whose comings and goings were breathlessly reported in the papers of Joseph Pulitzer and William Randolph Hearst. It was a time of abundance, but also bitter rivalries. The Old Money titans found themselves besieged by a vanguard of New Money interlopers eager to gain entrée into their world. Into this morass of money and desire stepped Caroline Astor.
 
An Old Money heiress of the first order, Mrs. Astor was convinced that she was uniquely qualified to uphold the manners and mores of 19th century America. “What would Mrs. Astor do?” became the question every social climber sought to answer. This work serves as a guide to manners as well as an insight to Mrs. Astor’s personal diary and address book. Ceceilia Tichi invites us on a beautifully illustrated tour of the Gilded Age, transporting readers to New York at its most fashionable.
 
“This was a society founded on exclusivity, with floods of tears from those who didn't receive an invitation to Mrs. Astor's annual ball.” — Anne de Courcy,
The Wall Street Journal
 
“Presented with a breezy authority that keeps the pages turning.” —
Publishers Weekly
 

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"Everyone followed the rules that Mrs. Astor laid down from the number of courses to be served at dinner to the appropriate time to arrive at the opera. The exteriors of life in this upper echelon are the subject of... What Would Mrs. Astor Do?.This was a society founded on exclusivity, with floods of tears from those who didn't receive an invitation to Mrs. Astor's annual ball." -- Anne de Courcy ― The Wall Street Journal

"A new etiquette guide...has just turned up, offering further proof that sliding around the naughty edges of society can be as informative as it is entertaining." -- Alida Becker ―
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"Tichidelivers a crisp survey of New Yorks upper-class world in the late 19th century, using society maven Caroline Astor as the guide...Presented with a breezy authority that keeps the pages turning,Tichi's book will captivate those interested in a light look at Americas fashionable gentry of eras past." ―
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About the Author

Cecelia Tichi is Gertrude Conaway Vanderbilt Professor of English and American Studies Emerita at Vanderbilt University. Her books include Jazz Age Cocktails, Gilded Age Cocktails, What Would Mrs. Astor Do? The Essential Guide to the Manners and Mores of the Gilded Age and Civic Passions: Seven Who Launched Progressive America. Her mystery fiction includes the “Val and Roddy DeVere Gilded” series, set in the Gilded Age. Her website: https://www.cecebooks.com.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B07CG2TD3H
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ NYU Press; Illustrated edition (May 3, 2022)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ May 3, 2022
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 7399 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 306 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
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A fresh start for every new book, and author Cecelia Tichi's zest for America's Gilded Age and its boldface names draws this seasoned writer to a crime fiction series while uncorking the country's cocktail cultures on the printed (and ebook) page. Tichi digs deep into the Vanderbilt University research library to mine the late 1800-1900s history and customs of Society's "Four Hundred," its drinks, and the ways high-stakes crimes in its midst make for a gripping "Gilded" mystery series that rings true to the tumultuous era. The decades of America's industrial titans and "Queens" of Society have loomed large in Tichi's books for several years, and the titles track her recent projects:

Civic Passions: Seven Who Launched Progressive America (and What They Teach Us)

Jack London: A Writer's Fight for a Better America

What Would Mrs. Astor Do? A Complete Guide to the Manners and Mores of the Gilded Age

Gilded Age Cocktails: History, Lore, and Recipes from the Golden Age

Jazz Age Cocktails: History, Lore, and Recipes from the Roaring Twenties

A Gilded Death (crime fiction)

Murder, Murder, Murder in Gilded Central Park (crime fiction)

A Fatal Gilded High Note (crime fiction)

COMING SOON IN THE 'GILDED' CRIME SERIES:

A Gilded Free Fall.

She enjoys membership and posting in Facebook’s The Gilded Age Society. You can read more about her work by visiting www.cecebooks.com.

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4.3 out of 5 stars
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Should be held in same regard as Emily Post's Etiquette
When Caroline Webster Schermerhorn married William Backhouse Astor Jr. the beginning of modern American society was born. Mrs. Astor became arguably the most celebrated socialite of all time. Throughout her reign, she guided a nation in propriety. She was the perfect mixture of old money values with modern New York Gilded Age style and class. She took it upon herself to address her admirers in etiquette, proper dress, education and used her influence to shape all that was to be expected and accepted.Mrs. Astor has always fascinated me. What kind of woman would command such a loyal following in such a male-dominated time? What was it about her? Whether you think of her as the ultimate Eastern snob or the Preppy Queen of the World this fascinating account of how things were (and in some circles continue to be) from Cecelia Tichi is a must-read for the modern woman. Whether you relish in her accomplishments or are astounded by her snobbery Mrs. Astor's story is noteworthy and is flawlessly told with pictures and drawings to accentuate every grand detail.I would recommend this book for every woman to read at least once in her life. History buffs will love the rare glimpse into this amazing woman's influence. This book should hold its place in the same regard as Emily Post's Etiquette and reserve its place right beside it on the shelf. It’s perfect for a women's book club to read discussing the book at a fun and proper Astor-inspired luncheon at a posh restaurant in the city.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2019
I thoroughly enjoyed this book, not just for the social history of the NYC Gilded Age inhabitants, but also for some true historical facts thrown in. For example, did you know that elevators existed as early as 1859? Granted, they weren't very safe since the cables often broke, but they did exist. Then Elisha Graves Otis, invented a safety harness which prevented the cage from plummeting down. It was operated hydraulically until 1889 when electricity was used to power them. And electricity was becoming quite common in business and in residences for lighting well before the 1900s. And telephones were considered useless when first invented for anything other than business. Who would want to speak to a box in the wall instead of face to face? I wonder what people of that time would think today if they saw masses of people staring at their hand held phones instead of having a conversation with the person with whom they shared a table in the restaurant?
The social history is well covered also, discussing everything from leaving calling cards to what restaurants ladies could be seen in at what time of day. How a gentleman could address a lady he meets on the street, what drinks were popular. and even the evolution of lobster as haute cuisine. In today's hyper casual lifestyle, these rules might seem shallow and burdensome, but then knowing the rules for behavior made it easier to navigate among the society that existed at the time. Think Downton Abbey on steroids.

If you have any interest in how people lived during the end of the 1800s and into the beginning of the 1900s, this book is for you. It is fun but also informative and you might just come away with an appreciation for an era long gone.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 17, 2019
Gilded Age: A time when greed was good, America was expanding from sea to shining sea, and conspicuous consumption was the norm for the very wealthy. This book peers into the lives of NYC's old society as they grapple with accepting the hordes of new money. They looked upon the nouveau riche as ill-mannered, uncouth social climbers. Times were changing and the rules of compartment & etiquette were the only things that kept society from descending into the common dustbin. This book has photographs,illustrations from the time, and excerpts from the writings of gilded ladies and gentlemen. This book is a peek into the parlors, ballrooms, restaurants and even vacation " cottages" of the time. It was easy to read, with chapters that flow well. I bought the e-book version, which made looking up some obsolete terms easy to check up using the dictionary available on the kindle.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2022
When Caroline Webster Schermerhorn married William Backhouse Astor Jr. the beginning of modern American society was born. Mrs. Astor became arguably the most celebrated socialite of all time. Throughout her reign, she guided a nation in propriety. She was the perfect mixture of old money values with modern New York Gilded Age style and class. She took it upon herself to address her admirers in etiquette, proper dress, education and used her influence to shape all that was to be expected and accepted.

Mrs. Astor has always fascinated me. What kind of woman would command such a loyal following in such a male-dominated time? What was it about her? Whether you think of her as the ultimate Eastern snob or the Preppy Queen of the World this fascinating account of how things were (and in some circles continue to be) from Cecelia Tichi is a must-read for the modern woman. Whether you relish in her accomplishments or are astounded by her snobbery Mrs. Astor's story is noteworthy and is flawlessly told with pictures and drawings to accentuate every grand detail.

I would recommend this book for every woman to read at least once in her life. History buffs will love the rare glimpse into this amazing woman's influence. This book should hold its place in the same regard as Emily Post's Etiquette and reserve its place right beside it on the shelf. It’s perfect for a women's book club to read discussing the book at a fun and proper Astor-inspired luncheon at a posh restaurant in the city.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2022
When Caroline Webster Schermerhorn married William Backhouse Astor Jr. the beginning of modern American society was born. Mrs. Astor became arguably the most celebrated socialite of all time. Throughout her reign, she guided a nation in propriety. She was the perfect mixture of old money values with modern New York Gilded Age style and class. She took it upon herself to address her admirers in etiquette, proper dress, education and used her influence to shape all that was to be expected and accepted.

Mrs. Astor has always fascinated me. What kind of woman would command such a loyal following in such a male-dominated time? What was it about her? Whether you think of her as the ultimate Eastern snob or the Preppy Queen of the World this fascinating account of how things were (and in some circles continue to be) from Cecelia Tichi is a must-read for the modern woman. Whether you relish in her accomplishments or are astounded by her snobbery Mrs. Astor's story is noteworthy and is flawlessly told with pictures and drawings to accentuate every grand detail.

I would recommend this book for every woman to read at least once in her life. History buffs will love the rare glimpse into this amazing woman's influence. This book should hold its place in the same regard as Emily Post's Etiquette and reserve its place right beside it on the shelf. It’s perfect for a women's book club to read discussing the book at a fun and proper Astor-inspired luncheon at a posh restaurant in the city.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 31, 2019
During the late 19th century, large cities housed mansions, extravagance, exclusivity, and constrictions on human behavior that turned the concept of being true to your nature into social disgrace. Mrs. Astor was for a time the arbiter of the social set that ruled each other by means of humiliation, scandal, and ostracism. But if you look at the wealthy today, they are just as appalling as the Astor crowd. They spend fortunes on things like plastic surgery, designer clothing, entertainment, and toys like yachts and private jets. Their chief concern is maintaining that lifestyle at almost any cost. True, they contribute to worthy causes, and not all of them are caught up in getting more and more fabulous stuff to flaunt to the rest of us. This book can be taken as a warning about where these trends are taking us as a culture. I refer potential readers to Marie Antoinette and the French Revolution if they'd like to extend our present culture into the future where income disparity is rapidly taking us. It's really a question of who deserves to live and who should die.
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