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Dancing in the Mosque: An Afghan Mother's Letter to Her Son Kindle Edition
A People Book of the Week & a Kirkus Best Nonfiction of the Year
An exquisite and inspiring memoir about one mother’s unimaginable choice in the face of oppression and abuse in Taliban-controlled Afghanistan.
In the days before Homeira Qaderi gave birth to her son, Siawash, the road to the hospital in Kabul would often be barricaded because of the frequent suicide explosions. With the city and the military on edge, it was not uncommon for an armed soldier to point his gun at the pregnant woman’s bulging stomach, terrified that she was hiding a bomb. Frightened and in pain, she was once forced to make her way on foot. Propelled by the love she held for her soon-to-be-born child, Homeira walked through blood and wreckage to reach the hospital doors. But the joy of her beautiful son’s birth was soon overshadowed by other dangers that would threaten her life.
No ordinary Afghan woman, Homeira refused to cower under the strictures of a misogynistic social order. Defying the law, she risked her freedom to teach children reading and writing and fought for women’s rights in her theocratic and patriarchal society.
Devastating in its power, Dancing in the Mosque is a mother’s searing letter to a son she was forced to leave behind. In telling her story—and that of Afghan women—Homeira challenges you to reconsider the meaning of motherhood, sacrifice, and survival. Her story asks you to consider the lengths you would go to protect yourself, your family, and your dignity.
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherHarper
- Publication dateDecember 1, 2020
- File size5.7 MB

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“How does a girl grow to be a woman in a society that shuts off every opportunity? How does a mother choose between her child and the future, not just her future but that of the women of Afghanistan? Homeira Qaderi answers these impossible questions in her stunning memoir, Dancing in the Mosque—one of the most moving love letters to life itself that you will ever read.” — Meg Waite Clayton, author of The Last Train to London
"A stunning reminder that stories and words are what sustain us, even—and perhaps especially—under the most frightening circumstances." — New York Times
"An unvarnished, memorable portrayal of a mother’s grief and love." — Kirkus Reviews (starred review) Best of the year 2020, Nonfiction
"A heartrending, indelible tale." — People
“Dancing in the Mosque is a remarkable story of great strength, perseverance, and personal sacrifice by a woman selflessly working to advance the rights of women in her homeland of Afghanistan, women and girls who yearn to be free. I so admire Homeira Qaderi's writing, but even more her courage. I wept when I read the words, " in this land, it is better to be a stone than a girl." Thank you, Homeira, for telling a story that everyone needs to read." — Deborah Rodriquez, author of New York Times bestseller The Kabul Beauty School and Little Coffee Shop in Kabul
“A modern-day Sophie's Choice, this memoir about a mother's love for her child and country is heartbreaking, but also triumphantly hopeful and inspiring. Thank God for courageous women like Homeira Qaderi.” — Thrity Umrigar, bestselling author of The Secrets Between Us
“'God never answers the prayers of girls,' the Afghan writer Homeira Qaderi was told when the Taliban invaded her native city of Herat. But her new book, Dancing in the Mosque, is a kind of answered prayer born of her courage, indomitable will, and storytelling gifts. In this remarkable blend of memoir and anguished letter in exile to a son she cannot see, Qaderi reminds us that the pen is mightier than the sword, especially when it is in the hands of a writer who invites her readers to dance in the mosque." — Christopher Merrill, author of Self-Portrait with Dogwood
About the Author
Ariana Delawari, an Earphones Award-winning narrator, is a musician, director, and actress. A graduate of the USC School of Cinematic Arts, she directed We Came Home, an award-winning documentary about her journeys to Afghanistan since 9/11, the making of her album "Lion of Panjshir," and her family story. She recently became the first female of Afghan descent to perform rock music live in Afghanistan in over thirty years. She is also a member of the LA Ladies Choir and was recently a speaker and performer at the inaugural TEDx Kabul.
Dr. Homeira Qaderi is a women's rights activist originally from Afghanistan. She has published six books in Afghanistan and Iran, some of which have received prestigious awards. Dancing in the Mosque is her first book in English.
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- ASIN : B085CGC8WB
- Publisher : Harper (December 1, 2020)
- Publication date : December 1, 2020
- Language : English
- File size : 5.7 MB
- Text-to-Speech : Enabled
- Screen Reader : Supported
- Enhanced typesetting : Enabled
- X-Ray : Enabled
- Word Wise : Enabled
- Print length : 217 pages
- Best Sellers Rank: #441,727 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #345 in Motherhood (Kindle Store)
- #543 in Parenting Boys
- #1,647 in Motherhood (Books)
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- Reviewed in the United States on December 31, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars A powerful, beautifully written autobiography and mother's love letter to her son
What kind of place is Afghanistan? Who lives there? I was aware of that country from the never-ending media stories about the morass of US entanglements with that country since 9/11., and also of prior Soviet failed attempt control that place. I even heard about a terribly bloody and humiliating defeat of British colonials in the 19th century. But in the rush of daily things, I never felt bothered enough to ask myself what it might mean to live in that baffling , distant place so different from my own life.
I casually bought Dancing in the Mosque after a positive review that raised my curiosity as Covid-19 home confinement is making me read more. I have absolutely no regret.
The story weaves together Homeira Qaderi's autobiography with moving mother's love letters to her son. He was snatched away from her arms when he was 19-month old on the day when her husband who according to this so convenient custom pronounced her divorced three times in her own house . She had just learned indirectly about this man's plan from a female university colleague in Kabul.
This book is a bottle thrown into the ocean by the lonely survivor of a shipwreck. Homeira Qaderi fervent hope is that one copy of her book will some day reach her son and prove to him that she is alive, contrary to the appalling lie of her death told to this unfortunate child by her husband supported by approving males and fearful females members of that family.
Here is a strong young woman who is fighting for the dignity of women in her homeland, and for mothers. She has that mysterious quality of great writers who write clearly, accurately and almost poetically about the most painful or frightening moments of their lives because they can keep their eyes dry and seek truth.
Homeira impresses me by the way she portrays with lucidity and empathy each different member of her family, friends and people she encounters, whatever they do and tell her. Confined to her house, first under the Russian and then under the Taliban, this vibrant, positive and freedom-yearning young woman is criticized every moment of the day by her grand-mother Nanah-jan who is totally unsupportive of her granddaughter's legitimate yearnings and a relentless enforcer of every indefensible Afghan custom
This beautifully told story of a girl growing up in a claustrophobic house of the hot, dusty and violent city of Herat has been nurtured by the great Persian and Russian authors that her father and grandfather let her read. Qaderi tells us how her grand-father has to hide away his copy of Hafez during a Taliban inspection of their home. The great medieval Persian poet Hafez had been her grandfather daily companion through the hardships of his life . Are persistent difficulties the reason why Hafez remains such a part of the fabric of life not only in Afghanistan but also Iran today ?.
On the dark day of a life-changing crisis for blossoming young 17-year old Homeira, her dreadful grandmother utters a terrible phrase that sums up for me the current state of affairs in Afghanistan : " In this land it is better to be a stone than to be a girl"...
Homeria Qaderi's dignified woman and passionate mother's voice will stay with me for a very long time.
- Reviewed in the United States on June 1, 2021Finishing the book on Memorial Day, I appreciate the sacrifices made for the freedoms that I take for granted and resolve to be more aware of the plight of the oppressed.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2021Stories of her childhood and teen years in Afghanistan during the Russian occupation, the civil war, and under the rule of the Taliban with a letter to her son who she had to leave behind after her husband divorced her.
I appreciated her sharing her stories of life growing up in Afghanistan and the reactions of her mother and grandmother as well as her male relatives. I had a hard time dealing with the misogyny shown by the men in her life. I abhorred the men held up as leaders--Maulawi Rashad and Commander Mooso. I was glad when Homeira spoke to her father about what she had seen in the mosque. I also found it hard to read about her treatment at the hands of men who thought she was a "bad girl" because she was out without a male relative. I felt a lot of anger at the antiquated thinking while reading her story.
I loved her determination to better her life and other girls' lives and, along the way, the boys' lives also. I felt anger at her husband. He had led her to believe they were working together and had the same objectives.
I hope that one day she can give her son the letters she wrote. I hope that he can help in her work of changing Afghan culture to be kinder and gentler towards woman.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 10, 2022If you read one book about Afghanistan---THIS IS THE BOOK TO READ! WOW! WOW! WOW! This book is very interesting and well written. It is a biography about a woman growing up in Afghanistan. I would highly recommend this book to anyone interested in Afghanistan and all the challenges and DANGERS that women face there. May God bless, help, and protect the courageous people of Afganistan and bring peace to a troubled land. Read this book and pray for peace, security and prosperity for Afganistan. They deserve a better life!
- Reviewed in the United States on April 9, 2024LOVED this memoir!!!
- Reviewed in the United States on February 28, 2022It's a true story about a mother's life in Afghanistan
- Reviewed in the United States on December 20, 2021A beautiful, heart wrenching story about what it means to be a woman in Afghanistan and subject to the fear of the Taliban. We hear and see about the treatment of women from a far - but to hear it play by play in today’s times really hits home. A humanity crisis for men and women. I look forward to more books by Homeira to see where her strength and drive take her.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2021After reading this biography it is difficult to see the plight of the people of Afghanistan, especially the women, in the same way. What is my responsibility to these tortured, oppressed souls who are enslaved by their traditions, their religion, and their rulers in light of their abandonment by our government. Is there any hope for a better future now that the Taliban is back in total control of the country?
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- mahekReviewed in India on November 24, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Good quality print
Reading Dancing in the Mosque was an emotional journey for me. Homeira Qaderi’s story of sacrifice, courage, and love for her son struck a chord in my heart. As a mother myself, I couldn’t help but think about the choices she had to make—choices no parent should ever face. Her words are raw and honest, and they gave me a deeper understanding of what it means to fight for freedom and dignity in the face of unimaginable challenges.
Book Quality: I purchased the paperback, and I was impressed with how well-made it is. The pages are thick
mahekGood quality print
Reviewed in India on November 24, 2024
Book Quality: I purchased the paperback, and I was impressed with how well-made it is. The pages are thick
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- ginaReviewed in Canada on February 6, 2021
5.0 out of 5 stars Dancing in the Mosque
Love it. Great reading and strongly recommended
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AmazonReviewed in Germany on January 10, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars Eine sehr schöne Geschichte
Das Buch ist spannend und liest sich sehr gut.
- ByronsCornerReviewed in the United Kingdom on August 28, 2022
5.0 out of 5 stars Afghanistan
A very difficult subject but an insight into what life is like for a woman in this country and a glimpse into the future possibilities.
- Jose AntonioReviewed in Spain on January 2, 2022
5.0 out of 5 stars Ok
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