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Understanding and Loving a Person with Post-traumatic Stress Disorder: Biblical and Practical Wisdom to Build Empathy, Preserve Boundaries, and Show Compassion (The Arterburn Wellness Series) Paperback – April 1, 2018

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This book is a compassionate companion to those who love someone who has experienced severe trauma that left his or her brain changed by PTSD.

As someone who suffered from PTSD herself, Becky Johnson knows what is most helpful on the path to recovery. Becky teams up with Stephen Arterburn to offer:
  • Insight into what is happening in the brain
  • Background on treatments such as EMDR
  • Ideas on what to say and what not to say
  • Suggestions for calming a loved one during a PTSD episode


A personal coach and a compassionate companion, this book helps readers become a healing presence in their loved one’s life while practicing self-care as well.
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The Arterburn Wellness Series

Do you know and love someone with mental illness? There is Hope .

If you have a loved one with mental health struggles, you will find encouragement and help in this new series from bestselling author Stephen Arterburn.

Drawing on brain research, personal stories, and proven treatments, this compassionate look at different mental illnesses empowers readers to support their loved ones without feeling overwhelmed themselves.

The Arterburn Wellness Series give you practical help to understand and interact with your loved ones who deal with mental illness.

Stephen Arterburn, M.Ed.

Stephen is the teaching pastor at Northview Church in Carmel, IN. He is the founder of New Life Ministries, which focuses on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth. He is also a bestselling author and the host of the Christian counseling talk show New Life Live!, heard by over two million people each week.

Understanding and Loving a Person with

Depression

If someone you love is depressed, you probably feel confused, angry, and helpless. This encouraging guide will help you hold on to hope while broadening your understanding of depression and its treatment.

Dr. Brenda Hunter has been a caregiver for someone with depression and has also struggled with depression herself. Brenda and Steve know from personal experience that light can overcome the darkness of depression. You can get back the person you love. Learn how to care for both of you in this hope-filled book.

Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)

People who love or work with someone with ADD often feel conflicted: they want to help, but they don’t want to enable. They value the person’s creativity, but they are exhausted.

Stephen Arterburn and Timothy Smith address ten myths about ADD, the pros and cons of medication, foods that help to minimize ADD, twelve strengths of people with ADD, new studies on how to calm the mind, showing empathy even when it’s hard, and more.

This fresh look at ADD—not as a malady but as a unique way of thinking—shows readers that ADD doesn’t have to ruin their relationships. In fact, it can make them stronger.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

This book is a compassionate companion to those who love someone who has experienced severe trauma that left his or her brain changed by PTSD. As someone who suffered from PTSD herself, Becky Johnson knows what is most helpful on the path to recovery.

A personal coach and a compassionate companion, this book helps readers become a healing presence in their loved one’s life while practicing self-care as well.

Narcissism (NPD)

If you live or work with someone who has narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), you probably often feel put down .You feel ashamed of your own needs. Your relationship may feel so out of control that you wonder if you’ve lost your sanity. As a clinical psychotherapist for nearly thirty years, Patricia Kuhlman has worked with many people who have been victimized by another’s NPD.

Kuhlman and Arterburn offer validation, understanding, and encouragement. Being in relationship with a narcissist can be lonely and confusing. Find stability and truth in this practical guide.

Alcohol or Drug Addiction

This compassionate and helpful book educates both the mind and heart in the power of addiction and the way to help others find healing. When a family member or friend is addicted to drugs or alcohol the situation can feel hopeless and confusing.

Stoop and Arterburn have helped thousands of people around the country understand substance addiction and how to love someone well in the midst of this gripping disease.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

This book is for anyone who thought they were good friends with someone, only to be yelled at unexpectedly, for anyone who has a coworker who twists others’ words, or for anyone who has a spouse who is violent and accusatory.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a mental illness that can make loved ones feel as if it is their fault. Stephen Arterburn and Dr. Robert Wise want readers to know it’s not their fault and there is hope.

In this book, they offer readers advice on how to relate to people with BPD at home, work, and church. Readers don’t need to feel alone any longer. Help is on the way.

Sexual Addiction

A practical guide for spouses to understand what drives sexual addiction and how to find healing after betrayal. When Jason Martinkus confessed his infidelity to his wife, Shelley, she wasn’t sure she could ever trust him again. Together they began a difficult but redemptive journey of understanding sexual addiction.

This is a valuable resource for anyone who loves someone addicted to sex or pornography.

Bipolar Disorder

New Life counselor Becky Brown helps readers deal with the mood changes, emotional struggles, and confusion of loving someone who has bipolar disorder.

Brown and Arterburn understand that loving someone who has bipolar disorder is a challenge on a daily basis. This practical resource reminds readers they are not alone.

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About the Author

Stephen Arterburn, M.Ed., is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries and the host of the nationally syndicated Christian counseling talk show New Life Live! heard by over two million people each week on nearly two hundred radio stations nationwide. He is the bestselling author of books such as Every Man’s Battle and Healing Is a Choice. With over eight million books in print, Arterburn has been writing about God’s transformational truth since 1984. His ministry focuses on identifying and compassionately responding to the needs of those seeking healing and restoration through God’s truth.

Becky Johnson is the author of more than 60 books, covering genres from humor to brain science, from practical self-help to cooking, to spiritual inspiration. She lives with her family in Colorado.

 

Product details

  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ David C Cook (April 1, 2018)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 160 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1434710572
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1434710574
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 5.6 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.4 x 8.25 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars 85 ratings

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Stephen Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries--the nation's largest faith-based broadcast, counseling, and treatment ministry--and is the host of the nationally syndicated "New Life Live!" daily radio program heard on over 180 radio stations nationwide. Steve is also the founder of the Women of Faith conferences, attended by over 3 million women.

Steve is a nationally known public speaker and has been featured in national media venues such as "Oprah," "Inside Edition," "Good Morning America," "CNN Live," the "New York Times," "USA Today," and "US News & World Report." In August 2000, Steve was inducted into the National Speakers Association's Hall of Fame. A best-selling author, Steve has written over 60 books, including the popular Every Man's series and his most recent book, "Healing Is a Choice." He has been nominated for numerous writing awards and has won four Gold Medallion Awards for writing excellence.

Steve has degrees from Baylor University and the University of North Texas as well as two honorary doctorate degrees. Steve resides with his family in Laguna Beach, California.

Connect with Stephen on Twitter (@SteveArterburn)

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Reviewed in the United States on December 7, 2020
From the introduction comes this incredibly ambitious goal for a 55 minute read combining Biblical knowledge, psychiatric information, and first hand experience. I hope they can even come close to achieving it. My thoughts on the text will follow the quote after I finish reading it.

"Your reading this book is a dream come true for me because I know it will be a great handbook for helping someone who has experienced trauma. It has everything you need to act as a healing force in the life of someone who is in deep unresolved pain or who is reacting to the past rather than responding appropriately to the present."

A disclaimer: I read psychology books for fun, among a variety of other genres. I enjoy learning, but am often frustrated and disappointed when said texts just don't get it.

This one primarily gets it. That's refreshing, and made it a pleasure to read.

The focus is a solid blend of open, caring lines of communication blended with psychological studies - recent enough to acknowledge the difference between types of PTSD - and the promised Biblical knowledge. It's not afraid to cite a variety of resources, and as the recurring theme states, use the ones that work best for your needs, which may change moment to moment. PTSD is a fickle beast.

There is a disappointing sentence or two that seems to state that if someone wants to get better, they can. Tragically, that's not always the case, and I'd hate for someone struggling to feel less than worthy reading that brief section.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 10, 2019
I like what I have read thus far!
I like that I can read it from my phone while I am waiting for my wife at various venues.
Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2019
I learned a lot reading this book, and actually stopped to google for some of the experts mentioned in it, to listen to them for a while.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 30, 2019
Easy to read & great help suggestions. Also shows that PTSD can be caused by an abusive spouse, like mine was.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 22, 2019
Once I’m done ... it’ll be worth it
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Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2019
Tool to understand the mind of a ptsd victim
Reviewed in the United States on June 21, 2019
Good
Reviewed in the United States on April 1, 2019
Biblical & Informative
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