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Are Men Necessary?: When Sexes Collide Kindle Edition

4.2 4.2 out of 5 stars 150 ratings

Outspoken, Pulitzer Prize-winning New York Times Op-Ed columnist Maureen Dowd tackles the hot-button topic of gender politics in this “funny, biting, and incisive take on women's place in American society today” (Library Journal).

Are men afraid of smart, successful women? Why did feminism fizzle? Why are so many of today’s women freezing their faces and emotions in an orgy of plasticity? Is “having it all” just a cruel hoax?

In this witty and wide-ranging book, Maureen Dowd looks at the state of the sexual union, raising bold questions and examining everything from economics and presidential politics to pop culture and the “why?” of the Y chromosome.

In our ever-changing culture where locker room talk has become the talk of the town, 
Are Men Necessary? will intrigue Dowd's devoted readers—and anyone trying to sort out the chaos that occurs when sexes collide.

THE INSPIRATION FOR WHITNEY CUMMINGS' FORTHCOMING HBO® COMEDY PILOT “A LOT”
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She may be smart, incisive, witty, and keenly observant but with the release of Are Men Necessary?--a series of pithy (some might say piqued) ruminations on the sexes--Maureen Dowd will never, ever be championed by guys. Not that she cares. Even those who seek to avoid her columns in the august pages of The New York Times are certain to stumble over her invective in syndication. Dowd, it often seems, is everywhere. So those seeking even more via this book should be warned: Are Men Necessary? not only asks the eponymous question; it seeks to answer it with myriad examples (some convincing, some not) drawn from the Toronto Star to Kenneth Starr, from Cosmopolitan to Condoleezza Rice. You can bet a lot of folks aren't going to relish the answer.

With hands on hips and eyes wide open, Dowd surveys gender relations in contemporary settings such as the workplace, the White House, the mall, and the media, comparing and contrasting as she goes. And while her secondary sources are endless--and, let's face it, the subject of gender inequality is not exactly new--Dowd manages to produce a fair share of bons mots. To wit, this pearl on the subject of plastic surgery and men: "I have yet to see a man come out of cosmetic surgery without looking transformed into some permanently astonished lesbian version of himself," Dowd quotes a source as saying. "It's terrifying. My friend's father had just his eyes done by the best, most highly sought-after cosmetic surgeon in New York City. And he doesn't look refreshed or well rested. He looks like he's being stabbed to death by invisible people." Dowd's generously dispersed anecdotes, though seldom as funny, are equally readable. In the end, though, one wishes Are Men Necessary? went beyond simply grocery listing examples of sexual disparity to offer concrete suggestions for change. Then again, maybe that's too great a task even for a woman like Dowd. --Kim Hughes

From Publishers Weekly

Dowd's Bushworld, collecting her amped New York Times op-eds, hit big during the 2004 presidential campaign. This follow-up is as slapdash as the earlier book was slash-and-burn. What Dowd seems really to want to do is dish up anecdotes of gender bias in the media, which she does with her usual aplomb—everything from how Elizabeth Vargas was booted out of Peter Jennings's vacant chair at ABC during his illness ("I'm not sure if she has the gravitas," opines an exec) to the guys who won't date Dowd because she's got more Beltway juice (and money) than they. The rest is padding: endless secondary source and pundit quotes ("In Time, Andrew Sullivan wondered: 'So a woman is less a woman if she is a scientist or journalist or Prime Minister?' "); examples of gender relations gone wrong in books, film and TV; random interview blips ("Carrie, a publicist in her late twenties from Long Island, told me...."); little musings from girlhood that are rarely revealing enough; endless career rehashes of everyone from Anita Hill to Helen Gurley Brown. A chapter on dating is a mishmash of everything from The Rules to He's Just Not That into You; one on reproductive science (that asks the title question for real) ends up referring a lot to orgasm. It's intermittently entertaining, but neither sharp enough nor sustained enough to work as a book.
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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B000PC0SH8
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Berkley (November 8, 2005)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ November 8, 2005
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 775 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 356 pages
  • Customer Reviews:
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Reviewed in the United States on July 31, 2015
Unfortunately politics rears its ugly head into every aspect of our lives every milli or nano-second of all the time of our lives. Although this book was probably intended to "call out" men --and it does that very well-- it must also be treated as a remembrance of why we do not wish to continue the trauma of the Clinton years (which have never really left us, and are continuing in 2015 to devastate us) in 2016 and beyond. Americans can have short memories. Ms. Dowd's book was published in 2005 and the paperback updated edition was published in 2006. All we need to remind us of the shortcomings of Hillary Clinton and her accomplice, "Slick Willy Boy" Bill Clinton are the chapters of "Are Men Necessary?"

In the long run men are not necessary. In the short run, the Clintons are definitely and definitively not necessary. This book is probably one of number of books which warn American voters about the dangers of inviting a First Family, any First Family, back to The White House. 200 and some odd years ago, The United States decided it did not wish to have monarchical government. Even though our democratic republic has been just an experiment, it has failed as most experiments do and in that failure many "monarchical' families have been involved. Of late the Clintons and the Bushes are a revolving door in which the nation has found itself to be injuriously stuck.

As for men and women, we shall continue to have our gender wars until the male gender no longer exists. And that is a probable outcome.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 1, 2006
I am a great admirer of Maureen Dowd. Her column in the New York Times is the first thing I turn to after scanning the top stories. Her choice of language is always entertaining, and her insights into the psychological motives of public officials always add new dimensions to my understanding of the news. I was therefore rather distressed when her column disappeared for several months while she was on "book leave".

For anyone else who loves her column - rest assured that this book will not disappoint. Dowd is best when glib and entertaining, and most irritating when she affronts our closest held biases. Her critique of Bill Clinton's womanizing rankled my liberal prejudice, but eventually helped me realize how deeply it offended large segments of the public. This volume has large measures of that which will both amuse and challenge your sensibilities.

What has most perplexed me is how Dowd seems to fixate on the sexual aspects of our society, and in a way this book is her own exploration of that obsession. She admits in the very first line that she does not understand men - and even that she does not understand what she does not understand about them. While many might confess to this failing from either side of the sexual abyss, most would be content to live with their doubts and use ambiguity to cover up moments of uncertainty. Instead, Maureen Dowd attacks the eternal dance of equivocation head-on.

It is difficult to know exactly what playbook she is reading from when it comes to personal relationships. Her several accounts of misanthropic affairs and flirtations suggest that she sees courtship and romance less as the ritualized surrender to necessary emotions, and more as stylized machinations to seize the high ground, and while she might disparage "How to Catch and Hold a Man", one suspects that she read it attentively.

Dowd's basic thesis is that feminism's road, which she once believed to be a six-lane freeway, appears now to be a gated cul-de-sac. While it is hard to separate the serious criticism from the satire, it is clear that she thinks women have succumbed to playing out bimbo fantasies from popular culture. She ridicules the Harvard MBA's who trade their textbooks for miniskirts and cover up their academic successes to score a date.

Dowd is most relentless in her sarcastic attacks on men. While she clearly feels that they are congenitally unfit for public office, she also thinks that things might work out because the Y chromosome is disappearing and in a few hundred thousand years men will be history anyway. One hopes that there is some irony here, but it is apparent that she harbors a rather deep-seated resentment of males.

Despite its caustic witticism and public outrage, this struck me as a deeply personal book that Maureen Dowd wrote in an attempt to answer a question that haunts her even more than sexuality: "If I am so successful, why am I dissatisfied?"
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Reviewed in the United States on August 8, 2013
I found the book an entertaining introduction to the American politics from a feminist perspective, and thoghts about feminist-like figures, e.g. Hillary Clinton. Why Hillary Clinton betrayed the feminist ideals? It is very simple: feminism by definition is anti-elitist. But Hillary wanted to be the elite.

Gender is often about style and tone. Style of Maureen Dowd reminds me style of Sarah Palin - her otherwise ideological opponent. Dowd knows that male, "phallic" authority is a posture. Dowd, like Palin, has a "castrating" effect on male opponents not by way of being more manly than them (like Hillary), but by using the ultimate feminine weapon, the sarcastic put-down of male authority. But the primary mover in both cases is a heightened self-righteousness. I am fine if this spawns a sarcastic but funny book like this. I am less OK when this self-righteousness spawns global Politics.

Madelaine Albright once told a reporter that "U.S. is indispensable nation and we stand taller and see farther"! Condi Rice told Putin in 2008 (on TV!) that "while Russia is misbehaving, but the US would not punish it this time"? Susan Rice, the former US Ambassador to the U.N. was abrasive with male staffers -- I heard this myself from a Yale-based former diplomat. Perhaps it was different 30 years ago, but today most women are as tough as men and are often more confident. Outside the Y chromosome, in my opinion, there is no difference.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 7, 2022
I bought this because I started my career in 1978 and this book accurately portrays the environment I faced as a young female professional in the Washington DC area. There was no thought of "me too" back then! It was the wild, wild, west of the corporate world.
Reviewed in the United States on May 11, 2018
it was okay.
Reviewed in the United States on February 26, 2013
Maureen Dowd's voice speaks to me in the darkness of a lonely place, one where men are terrified of women who are successful on their own terms. She made me feel better about everything that has haunted me. She does not provide solutions (alas, as she, like the rest of us uppity women, has none) for the battle of the sexes, unless that solution is simply that we should keep on being the people we have the gifts and the resolve to be.

I love Maureen's voice. I want to be her friend and talk to her about these problems the way she has talked to me.

If you are a woman who frightens men without being rude or cruel, buy this book. Maureen Dowd is talking to you.
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Reviewed in Canada on November 20, 2015
A constant barrage disparage man speak. Not even funny.
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