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Are Men Necessary?: When Sexes Collide Kindle Edition
Are men afraid of smart, successful women? Why did feminism fizzle? Why are so many of today’s women freezing their faces and emotions in an orgy of plasticity? Is “having it all” just a cruel hoax?
In this witty and wide-ranging book, Maureen Dowd looks at the state of the sexual union, raising bold questions and examining everything from economics and presidential politics to pop culture and the “why?” of the Y chromosome.
In our ever-changing culture where locker room talk has become the talk of the town, Are Men Necessary? will intrigue Dowd's devoted readers—and anyone trying to sort out the chaos that occurs when sexes collide.
THE INSPIRATION FOR WHITNEY CUMMINGS' FORTHCOMING HBO® COMEDY PILOT “A LOT”
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBerkley
- Publication dateNovember 8, 2005
- Reading age18 years and up
- File size775 KB
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With hands on hips and eyes wide open, Dowd surveys gender relations in contemporary settings such as the workplace, the White House, the mall, and the media, comparing and contrasting as she goes. And while her secondary sources are endless--and, let's face it, the subject of gender inequality is not exactly new--Dowd manages to produce a fair share of bons mots. To wit, this pearl on the subject of plastic surgery and men: "I have yet to see a man come out of cosmetic surgery without looking transformed into some permanently astonished lesbian version of himself," Dowd quotes a source as saying. "It's terrifying. My friend's father had just his eyes done by the best, most highly sought-after cosmetic surgeon in New York City. And he doesn't look refreshed or well rested. He looks like he's being stabbed to death by invisible people." Dowd's generously dispersed anecdotes, though seldom as funny, are equally readable. In the end, though, one wishes Are Men Necessary? went beyond simply grocery listing examples of sexual disparity to offer concrete suggestions for change. Then again, maybe that's too great a task even for a woman like Dowd. --Kim Hughes
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“Fun...plenty of style and wit.”—Baltimore Sun
“She'll keep you turning pages...Dowd has a voice that carries.”—People
“No one vets the culture with a keener eye than Dowd.”—Chicago Tribune
“Maureen Dowd has waded into the one topic more controversial than politics: sexual politics.”—Austin American-Statesman
“The New York Times columnist is dizzyingly well-read and well-rounded, with references from Oscar Wilde to Valley of the Dolls. My favorite part was when she casually flund the phrase 'as Carmen Miranda used to say' into a discussion of the Enron scandal...very lively...always entertaining.”—Chicago Sun-Times
“[Dowd] discusses sexual realities and absurdities, doing so with the same verve and nerve with which she handled the other hot-button topic—politics—in her 2004 bestseller, Bushworld...hilarious, cutting, and provocative.”—Booklist
“Readable, provocative, and entertaining.”—*Library Journal
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In addition to her two New York Times bestsellers, Bushworld and Are Men Necessary?, Dowd has written for GQ, Vanity Fair, Rolling Stone, The New Republic, Mademoiselle, Sports Illustrated and others.
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In the long run men are not necessary. In the short run, the Clintons are definitely and definitively not necessary. This book is probably one of number of books which warn American voters about the dangers of inviting a First Family, any First Family, back to The White House. 200 and some odd years ago, The United States decided it did not wish to have monarchical government. Even though our democratic republic has been just an experiment, it has failed as most experiments do and in that failure many "monarchical' families have been involved. Of late the Clintons and the Bushes are a revolving door in which the nation has found itself to be injuriously stuck.
As for men and women, we shall continue to have our gender wars until the male gender no longer exists. And that is a probable outcome.
For anyone else who loves her column - rest assured that this book will not disappoint. Dowd is best when glib and entertaining, and most irritating when she affronts our closest held biases. Her critique of Bill Clinton's womanizing rankled my liberal prejudice, but eventually helped me realize how deeply it offended large segments of the public. This volume has large measures of that which will both amuse and challenge your sensibilities.
What has most perplexed me is how Dowd seems to fixate on the sexual aspects of our society, and in a way this book is her own exploration of that obsession. She admits in the very first line that she does not understand men - and even that she does not understand what she does not understand about them. While many might confess to this failing from either side of the sexual abyss, most would be content to live with their doubts and use ambiguity to cover up moments of uncertainty. Instead, Maureen Dowd attacks the eternal dance of equivocation head-on.
It is difficult to know exactly what playbook she is reading from when it comes to personal relationships. Her several accounts of misanthropic affairs and flirtations suggest that she sees courtship and romance less as the ritualized surrender to necessary emotions, and more as stylized machinations to seize the high ground, and while she might disparage "How to Catch and Hold a Man", one suspects that she read it attentively.
Dowd's basic thesis is that feminism's road, which she once believed to be a six-lane freeway, appears now to be a gated cul-de-sac. While it is hard to separate the serious criticism from the satire, it is clear that she thinks women have succumbed to playing out bimbo fantasies from popular culture. She ridicules the Harvard MBA's who trade their textbooks for miniskirts and cover up their academic successes to score a date.
Dowd is most relentless in her sarcastic attacks on men. While she clearly feels that they are congenitally unfit for public office, she also thinks that things might work out because the Y chromosome is disappearing and in a few hundred thousand years men will be history anyway. One hopes that there is some irony here, but it is apparent that she harbors a rather deep-seated resentment of males.
Despite its caustic witticism and public outrage, this struck me as a deeply personal book that Maureen Dowd wrote in an attempt to answer a question that haunts her even more than sexuality: "If I am so successful, why am I dissatisfied?"
Gender is often about style and tone. Style of Maureen Dowd reminds me style of Sarah Palin - her otherwise ideological opponent. Dowd knows that male, "phallic" authority is a posture. Dowd, like Palin, has a "castrating" effect on male opponents not by way of being more manly than them (like Hillary), but by using the ultimate feminine weapon, the sarcastic put-down of male authority. But the primary mover in both cases is a heightened self-righteousness. I am fine if this spawns a sarcastic but funny book like this. I am less OK when this self-righteousness spawns global Politics.
Madelaine Albright once told a reporter that "U.S. is indispensable nation and we stand taller and see farther"! Condi Rice told Putin in 2008 (on TV!) that "while Russia is misbehaving, but the US would not punish it this time"? Susan Rice, the former US Ambassador to the U.N. was abrasive with male staffers -- I heard this myself from a Yale-based former diplomat. Perhaps it was different 30 years ago, but today most women are as tough as men and are often more confident. Outside the Y chromosome, in my opinion, there is no difference.
I love Maureen's voice. I want to be her friend and talk to her about these problems the way she has talked to me.
If you are a woman who frightens men without being rude or cruel, buy this book. Maureen Dowd is talking to you.