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Rules of Civility: A Novel Kindle Edition

4.4 4.4 out of 5 stars 40,727 ratings

From the #1 New York Times-bestselling author of The Lincoln Highway and A Gentleman in Moscow, a “sharply stylish” (Boston Globe) book about a young woman in post-Depression era New York who suddenly finds herself thrust into high society—now with over one million readers worldwide

On the last night of 1937, twenty-five-year-old Katey Kontent is in a second-rate Greenwich Village jazz bar when Tinker Grey, a handsome banker, happens to sit down at the neighboring table. This chance encounter and its startling consequences propel Katey on a year-long journey into the upper echelons of New York society—where she will have little to rely upon other than a bracing wit and her own brand of cool nerve.

With its sparkling depiction of New York’s social strata, its intricate imagery and themes, and its immensely appealing characters,
Rules of Civility won the hearts of readers and critics alike.

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Amazon Best Books of the Month, August 2011 Set during the hazy, enchanting, and martini-filled world of New York City circa 1938, Rules of Civility follows three friends--Katey, Eve, and Tinker--from their chance meeting at a jazz club on New Year's Eve through a year of enlightening and occasionally tragic adventures. Tinker orbits in the world of the wealthy; Katey and Eve stretch their few dollars out each evening on the town. While all three are complex characters, Katey is the story's shining star. She is a fully realized heroine, unique in her strong sense of self amidst her life's continual fluctuations. Towles' writing also paints an inviting picture of New York City, without forgetting its sharp edges. Reminiscent of Fitzgerald, Rules of Civility is full of delicious sentences you can sit back and savor (most appropriately with a martini or two). --Caley Anderson

A sophisticated and entertaining debut novel about an irresistible young woman with an uncommon sense of purpose.

Set in New York City in 1938,
Rules of Civility tells the story of a watershed year in the life of an uncompromising twenty-five-year- old named Katey Kontent. Armed with little more than a formidable intellect, a bracing wit, and her own brand of cool nerve, Katey embarks on a journey from a Wall Street secretarial pool through the upper echelons of New York society in search of a brighter future.

The story opens on New Year's Eve in a Greenwich Village jazz bar, where Katey and her boardinghouse roommate Eve happen to meet Tinker Grey, a handsome banker with royal blue eyes and a ready smile. This chance encounter and its startling consequences cast Katey off her current course, but end up providing her unexpected access to the rarified offices of Conde Nast and a glittering new social circle. Befriended in turn by a shy, principled multimillionaire, an Upper East Side ne'er-do-well, and a single-minded widow who is ahead of her times, Katey has the chance to experience first hand the poise secured by wealth and station, but also the aspirations, envy, disloyalty, and desires that reside just below the surface. Even as she waits for circumstances to bring Tinker back into her orbit, she will learn how individual choices become the means by which life crystallizes loss.

Elegant and captivating,
Rules of Civility turns a Jamesian eye on how spur of the moment decisions define life for decades to come. A love letter to a great American city at the end of the Depression, readers will quickly fall under its spell of crisp writing, sparkling atmosphere and breathtaking revelations, as Towles evokes the ghosts of Fitzgerald, Capote, and McCarthy.

Amor Towles's Rules of Civility Playlist

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While jazz is not central to the narrative of Rules of Civility, the music and its various formulations are an important component of the book’s backdrop.

On the night of January 16, 1938, Benny Goodman assembled a bi-racial orchestra to play jazz to a sold-out Carnegie Hall--the first jazz performance in the hallowed hall and one which is now famous for bringing jazz (and black performers) to a wider audience. I am not a jazz historian, but for me the concert marks something of a turning point in jazz itself--from the big-band, swing-era sound that dominated the 1930s (and which the orchestra emphasized on stage that night) towards the more introspective, smaller group styles that would soon spawn bebop and its smoky aftereffects (ultimately reaching an apogee with Miles Davis’s Kind of Blue in 1957). For it is also in 1938 that Coleman Hawkins recorded the bebop antecedent "Body & Soul" and Minton’s Playhouse, one of the key bebop gathering spots, opened in Harlem. By 1939, Blue Note Records was recording, and Dizzy Gillespie, Charlie Parker and Thelonious Monk were all congregating in New York City. From 1935-1939, Goodman himself was stepping out of the big-band limelight to make more intimate improvisational recordings with a quartet including Gene Krupa and Lionel Hampton.

My assertion of this as a turning point (like most such assertions) is rough, inexact and misleading, but it helps give shape to an evolution and bring into relief two ends of a jazz spectrum. On the big-band front, the power of the music naturally springs from the collective and orchestration. In numbers like "Sing, Sing, Sing," the carefully layered, precisely timed waning and waxing of rhythm and instrumentation towards moments of unified musical ecstasy simply demand that the audience collaborate through dance, cheers, and other outward expressions of joy. While in the smaller groups of bebop and beyond, the expressive power springs more from the soloist and his personal exploration of the music, his instrument, and his emotional state at that precise moment in time. This inevitably inspires in the listener a cigarette, a scotch, and a little more introspection. In a sense, the two ends of this jazz spectrum are like the public/private paradox of Walker Evans’s subway photographs (and of life in the metropolis itself.)

If you are interested, I have created an playlist of music from roughly 1935-1945 that spans this transition. The playlist is not meant to be comprehensive or exact. Among other items, it includes swinging live performances from Goodman’s Carnegie Hall Concert as well as examples of his smaller group work; there are precursors to bebop like Coleman Hawkins and some early Charlie Parker. As a strange historical footnote, there was a strike in 1942–1944 by the American Federation of Musicians, during which no official recordings were made. As such, this period at the onset of bebop was virtually undocumented and thus the records of 1945 reflect something of a culmination of early bebop rather than its starting point. The playlist also reflects the influence of the great American songbook giants (Cole Porter, Duke Ellington, Irving Berlin, Rodgers & Hart, the Gershwins), many of whom were at the height of their powers in the 1930s. --Amor Towles

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Praise for
Rules of Civility

“An irresistible and astonishingly assured debut about working class-women and world-weary WASPs in 1930s New York…in the crisp, noirish prose of the era, Towles portrays complex relationships in a city that is at once melting pot and elitist enclave – and a thoroughly modern heroine who fearlessly claims her place in it.”
O, the Oprah Magazine

“With this snappy period piece, Towles resurrects the cinematic black-and-white Manhattan of the golden age…[his] characters are youthful Americans in tricky times, trying to create authentic lives.” The New York Times Book Review

“This very good first novel about striving and surviving in Depression-era Manhattan deserves attention…The great strength of Rules of Civility is in the sharp, sure-handed evocation of Manhattan in the late ‘30s.” Wall Street Journal

“Put on some Billie Holiday, pour a dry martini and immerse yourself in the eventful life of Katey Kontent…[Towles] clearly knows the privileged world he’s writing about, as well as the vivid, sometimes reckless characters who inhabit it.” People

“[A] wonderful debut novel…Towles [plays] with some of the great themes of love and class, luck and fated encounters that animated Wharton’s novels.” The Chicago Tribune

“Glittering…filled with snappy dialogue, sharp observations and an array of terrifically drawn characters…Towles writes with grace and verve about the mores and manners of a society on the cusp of radical change.” NPR.org


“Glamorous Gotham in one to relish…a book that enchants on first reading and only improves on the second.”
The Philadelphia Inquirer

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B004IYJDVG
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Penguin Books; 1st edition (July 26, 2011)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ July 26, 2011
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 3410 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 349 pages
  • Page numbers source ISBN ‏ : ‎ 1444708872
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Amor Towles is the author of New York Times bestsellers RULES OF CIVILITY, A GENTLEMAN IN MOSCOW, and THE LINCOLN HIGHWAY, as well as the short story collection TABLE FOR TWO. His books have collectively sold more than six million copies and have been translated into more than thirty languages. Towles lives in Manhattan with his wife and two children.

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Reviewed in the United States on March 29, 2024
This was a very absorbing book. Couldn’t put it down. The milieu was particularly fascinating. Characters swell. Great plot. And the writing is impeccable.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 7, 2012
I really enjoyed reading this book. No I don't think Amor Towles is the next F. Scott, but I really enjoyed the language and metaphors that some people are blasting in the reviews. Unfortunately, the pacing fell off somewhere around the middle of the book and it just wandered around for a while and then decided to stop. The very ending made sense, but Tinker's desires and goals could have been woven better into the rest of the novel so that the ending would seem to the reader the only way it could or should have ended. Instead it just sort of quietly stopped after meandering around for a while.

I felt the introduction of Tinker's brother and the role that character played was completely extraneous, and should have been edited out or fixed to be more effective. The author seemed to try to use the brother to justify Tinker's choices and I didn't buy it. I actually felt that way about a lot of the secondary characters. Their roles were elevated beyond their usefulness. A tighter focus on Tinker, Eve, Katie and Anne (oh, and what about Val? His cameos weren't even long enough to generate interest, and they should have been!) while getting rid of all the girlfriends and the Texan with the maitre d', and and and would have greatly improved this book. Some of the literary allusions fell flat, and the author didn't quite seem to be able to keep a little Mike Hammer or something from his voice, although it detracted only slightly.

This review sounds uber-critical for someone who says she loved reading this book, but that is because I was really paying attention, which is the biggest complement I can pay to an author.

Now for a few of the things I really liked: I loved the voice of the main character. Her imperfect self was imminently knowable and believable to me, although the intro and the ending had me kind of wondering if I still cared. I loved the description of the Russian club--this author really gets the truth of these Russians and described their emotional way of relating to things beautifully. I felt like I had been there. And my favorite part was the descriptive prose and imagery. On one of the first pages, this caught my eye:

"In the 1950's, America had picked up the globe by the heels and shaken the change from its pockets. Europe had become a poor cousin--all crests and no table settings. And the indistinguishable countries of Africa, Asia, and South America had just begun skittering across our schoolroom walls like salamanders in the sun. True, the Communists were out there, somewhere, but with Joe McCarthy in the grave and no one on the Moon, for the time being the Russians just skulked across the pages of spy novels."

What a beautifully succinct way to set the time and arrogantly optimistic American mindset for the book! So in spite of its shortcomings, this book is worth the time it takes to read it and I do recommend it although with the caveat that you will probably enjoy the first half and then cruise through the second without the full satisfaction that might have been...
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Reviewed in the United States on April 10, 2024
Having already read A Gentleman in Moscow, I went back to read Towles’ first novel, Rules of Civility. What a delight. It’s easy to read, smart, and oh so New York. I loved getting lost in it.
Reviewed in the United States on March 21, 2024
So full of detail, vibrant characters and a marvellous setting. Then add the spice of drama, and you’re almost there. A wonderful read!
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Reviewed in the United States on June 8, 2017
This book is readable and entertaining, but is essentially a "Great Gatsby" knock-off, including the exploitation of ordinary Americans' love/hate relationship with the upper classes. The heroine, Katey, is Nick Archer, the initially naive narrator from the Midwest who is seduced by a rich, dishonest, but fundamentally decent phony. Her friend, Evey, is a working class Daisy Buchanan, while the hero, Tinker Grey, is Gatsby himself - in this case, a Gatsby kept by a rich, amoral socialite rather than one "in bed" with a mobster, Meyer Wolsheim. Predictably, Katie is seduced, then disillusioned. In this version of the rags-to-riches-to-rags-to-bourgeois-security-w/wistful-longing, nobody dies except a rich nice guy who is a convenient vehicle for the heroine's social education. The narrator gives us a tour of the homes of the rich and famous, as does Nick Archer. There's even a huge, noisy, wealthy-set party on Long Island – Oyster Bay, which is actually where Gatsby was set -and at this party, as in West Egg no one knows anyone else well, if at all.

Although I could not help but notice the parallels to Gatsby - let's give the author the benefit of his talent and refer to them as "allusions" - this was an enjoyable read. The philosophy is provided by George Washington and Henry David Thoreau- i.e., a social climber and a hippie drop-out philosopher. (Like Gatsby, the boy Tinker keeps a journal setting out the precepts for social success.) There is also a dollop of nostalgia, a la Fitzgerald - although Fitzgerald does it better, and Towles can sometimes be wordy and pretentious.

I am not giving this novel a poor review because, although I occasionally thought "oh, who's kidding whom - come off it already" the novel is fun. Also, one of the key signifiers of Gatsby's false life is his library, an extensive collection in which all the books are uncut: namely unopened and unread. Here, Katie has a large personal library, and the novel contains many allusions to libraries and reading lists. Also, Tinker Grey's life changes when he abandons George Washington for Thoreau. I think the author alludes playfully to Fitzgerald's metaphor - reading=authenticity - making it his own. A nice touch.

Three stars - not Tolstoy, not Fitzgerald; but not bad.
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Rahel S.
5.0 out of 5 stars For Fans of Edith Wharton
Reviewed in Canada on February 12, 2024
Good weekend read. Book seems heavily inspired or pays indirect homage to Edith Wharton and her New York coming of age stories and characters; plot even starts in1937 the year she died. I am more partial to Amor Towles' later novel: "A Gentleman in Moscow".
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5.0 out of 5 stars Fabulous writer
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 11, 2024
Amor Towles writes beautiful English and tells a very good story. I have enjoyed all his books.
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A. H. G. Kan
5.0 out of 5 stars A magnificent novel
Reviewed in the Netherlands on April 7, 2024
Staffed by remarkable characters, this book is first and foremost an ode to Manhattan and the lifestyle it stands for, including a revealing perspective on the ins and outs of belonging to its happy few.
Secret Spi
5.0 out of 5 stars Lullaby of Broadway
Reviewed in Germany on February 17, 2024
A gorgeous novel, infused with the essence of stardust. It brings to mind wise-cracking Katharine Hepburn films, Scott Fitzgerald novels and an audacious Art Deco world where everything stretches skywards.

It was refreshing to read such an intelligently-written novel, which conjures up the pulse of life in a particular time and particular place. “Rules of Civility” has intriguing characters, fancy restaurants and downbeat dives, the irrepressible mischief and precarious self-confidence of youth and the heartbeat of a city in its prime.

Fix me a Martini!
laura 1955
5.0 out of 5 stars Vivace,giovane,intelligente
Reviewed in Italy on February 5, 2024
Un modo di scrivere molto vivace e sorprendente,che mi ha dato ore di lettura piacevoli, catturandomi.
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