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The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness Kindle Edition
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Now you can unlock your full potential and free yourself from the shackles of past traumas and societal expectations to find true personal happiness. Based on the theories of renowned psychologist Alfred Adler, this book guides you through the principles of self-forgiveness, self-care, and mind decluttering in a straightforward, easy-to-digest style that’s accessible to all.
The Courage to Be Disliked unfolds as a dialogue between a philosopher and a young man, who, over the course of five enriching conversations, realizes that each of us is in control of our life’s direction, independent of past burdens and expectations of others.
Wise, empowering, and profoundly liberating, this book is a life-changing experience that shows you a path to lasting happiness and how to finally be the person you truly want to be. Millions are already benefiting from its teachings—and you can be next.
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherAtria Books
- Publication dateMay 8, 2018
- File size1806 KB
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“Adlerian psychology meets Stoic philosophy in Socratic dialogue. Compelling from front to back. Highly recommend.” -- Marc Andreessen, venture capitalist and founder of Andreessen Horowitz
"A nuanced discussion of a complex theory, with moments of real philosophical insight.... [It's] refreshing and useful to read a philosophy that goes against many contemporary orthodoxies. More than a century since Adler founded his school of psychology, there’s still insight and novelty in his theories." — Quartzy
“[The Courage to be Disliked guides] readers toward achieving happiness and lasting change… For those seeking a discourse that helps explain who they are in the world, Kishimi and Koga provide an illuminating conversation.” — Library Journal
About the Author
Fumitake Koga is an award-winning professional writer and author. He has released numerous bestselling works of business-related and general non-fiction. He encountered Adlerian psychology in his late twenties and was deeply affected by its conventional wisdom–defying ideas. Thereafter, Koga made numerous visits to Ichiro Kishimi in Kyoto, gleaned from him the essence of Adlerian psychology, and took down the notes for the classical “dialogue format” method of Greek philosophy that is used in this book.
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- ASIN : B078MDSV8T
- Publisher : Atria Books (May 8, 2018)
- Publication date : May 8, 2018
- Language : English
- File size : 1806 KB
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- Print length : 289 pages
- Best Sellers Rank: #2,454 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #2 in Self-Esteem Self-Help
- #3 in Free Will & Determinism Philosophy
- #4 in Happiness
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In a world that revolves around likes and being liked, this volume brings philosophy and psychology together in ways that have altered how I perceive and experience the world around me. Once you let go of the need to be liked, it’s pure freedom.
19th century psychologist Alfred Adler was known for the simplicity of his ideas (I.e “all problems are just interpersonal relationship problems”), though his contributions to psychology were eclipsed by better-known figures like Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung.
Every book sells something to the reader, and what I have “bought” as a result of this book is Adlerian psychology, which I believe is centered around individual growth and personal freedom. Authors Kishimi and Koga have brought Adler into the 21st century with tantalizing, relatable exchanges between an elderly philosopher and a young student that in plain simple language lead the reader to focus on life in the here and now. The text makes important distinctions between vertical and horizontal relationships, making a rock-solid case against the former and in favor of the latter. This book has definitely impacted my view of the world and relationships in particular. I look forward to reading the sequel, “The Courage To Be Happy.”
Adlerian psychology AKA individual psychology is hopefully here to stay. You can see evidence of the culture shifting to corroborate its views—evidence of the coming to fruition of Alder's own prophecy on why he'd be forgotten: "The implication being that if his [ideas] were forgotten, it would be because [they] had outgrown the bounds of a single area of [philosophy], and become commonplace, and a feeling shared by everyone." Take for example the recent publication by bestselling author David Brooks; if you've read The Courage to Be Disliked, you'll immediately recognize the parallels to Adlerian psychology in the cover flap summary of The Second Mountain.
Really this isn't a self-help or personal growth book as much as it is an introductory philosophy book with the power to direct and transform your life. And it sets a new bar for me on which self help books are worth reading (some, not many) and which are garbage (most of them). Not to mention that using the format of Socratic dialogue in and of itself is just a brilliant choice by the authors. How this book can be rated anything below 5 stars is unfathomable by me, and makes me question my faith in humanity, the good judgment of the common person.
I hope the tides of history turn, that in 50 years it's not Fraud (oops I mean Freud) who will be revered as the father of modern psychology but that Alfred Adler will rightly take his place with that title. I think it's high time we start to reject the pitifully ineffective disease/disorder paradigm of mental health which has been corrupted by the vices of allopathic medicine (which does have its virtues in other contexts) and start to embrace the more humanistic, holistic, positive growth, teleological (wink wink) approaches to psychology and mental health. Look at the world: current events, mental health statistics, etc. Our current way of doing things (especially in America) is not working. Adlerian psychology is right here under our noses, a beacon of hope waiting to be shone and shown to others. Which is what I implore you to do once you've finished reading this book: show it to others! Buy it for them if you have to! I have already bought 3 other copies as gifts to people in my life....you can trust my review because I'm already putting my money where my mouth is. READ THIS BOOK especially if you have not already scaled your "second mountain"
The part about etiology was particularly mind-blowing, especially for someone who’s been caught up with past trauma.
I don’t particularly like the dialogue format, though the authors did explain why the style was selected.
Read this at least once in your life.
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I would not recommend to people who dislike challenging traditional beliefs of human behaviour (their own included)
Reviewed in Italy on March 12, 2024